Love

Hello everyone.

So the topic that I'm going to talk about today

is why do we love and why do we fell

in love?

So in order to understand that first, we are going

to define what is love.

So according to the Cambridge dictionary to love is to

like another adult very much and to be romantically and

sexually attracted to them or to have strong feelings of

liking a friend or person in your family.

So it leads to the question why does our brain

fall in love?

It is something magical that causes the brain to fall

in love or a retreat by biology to think that

you're in love which leads us to reproduce.

Uh, so to understand these things, scientists have done their

experiments on animals, like the pretty balls.

Uh, they couldn't do their experiments on on on human

because because no one was because because for example, it

will fall in love and assigned.

This comes and asks you to inject some type of

chemical to understand why Why are you in love?

Are you going to do it?

Probably no, because it's dangerous and and all.

So they they so they found the animal that is

similar to human similar to human equity.

Uh, when it comes to love, because yes, when we

come to love, look, when it comes to love, uh

they found Prezi votes.

Uh, it's a similar kind of their relation she could

love is similar to human because there are mono gammas

and also they found someone that they like or the

mate we'd they stay together for life.

So after many research and after some time scientists found

that when someone falls in love, their uh some of

their neurotransmitters increase and some drops and I stress hormone

which is called cortisol increases.

That makes the person who has fallen in love to

feel nervous and their oxytocin level increases, causing them to

feel a morse.

Uh so, so there are so many chemical reactions directions

that happens when someone falls in love.

We know that, but we don't know, we don't know

why it happens.

Why do we fall in love?

Why do we choose to fall in love?

So, there are some fact that answers.

The discussions first is intimacy.

So according, again, according to Cambridge, dictionary, intimacy is a

situation in which you have a close friendship or sexual

friendship. Really, really sorry relationship with someone.

Uh falling, falling in love for intense intimacy is one

of the first citizens that comes to understand why why

we fall in love at first and foremost, intimacy creates

basic friendship.

And even if he doesn't always mean six, but care

and want uh as humans, we seek, we seek love,

we we want to be loved and to be cured

uh for uh and in the hands of someone we

can trust.

What. And uh as russell british philosophy, uh Russell, a

british philosopher philosopher state love is in is an escape

from our loneliness.

So according to him, we love in order to satisfy

our physical and psychological desires and humans are desire.

A desire to procreate to procreate.

But without the without the stc of love, six is

unsatisfied. The second fact that comes when we want to

understand love is passion.

So again, according to Cambridge dictionary, passion is an extreme

interest in in our rich for doing something such as

a hobby activity, et cetera.

Uh when you talk about passionate love, it is the

blow as a result of feelings that lead to sexual

attraction, physical interest and romance.

It is usually connected with loves in absence of Indonesian,

but in absence of Indonesian commitment is feeling fades, tells

the love fades as well.

So with love, passion comes, but passion doesn't depend love

and it doesn't last long.

And then at last com's commitment.

Uh huh.

Also, again, according to Cambridge dictionary, commitment is a promise

of decision to do something.

So when someone falls in love and he or she

is here of it, it leads them to commit themselves

with their other health.

Other have we say other end.

A little note, we say the person we love, we

call them other half because as plateau, the ancient greek

philosopher philosopher once said loves makers hold again.

So in his books chapters, he said that that uh

long ago Humans had two heads, 4 4 hands and

four Legs.

Yes. And they did something and they separated.

And since then, uh since then when they're separated, uh

adults, how do you have to say?

Uh So when they're separated, they become two separate persons

and they lost in the world are in the universe.

And uh, since then, the both both are in search

of the other part of the other half.

I don't know if I explained theory, but it was

the story that Plato wrote in his books.

So, yes.

Uh so it is a way, it is a way

of trust.

It's a promise to stay together and love each other

for life.

And in the school and hard world, when a human's

find someone they can trust and from home, they are

receiving love, they tend to commit themselves with the person.

But in a modern generation, commitment doesn't tend to us

long because people, because now people are more attracted to

towards objects than humans.

But if we talk about all generations and time before,

uh, there were not many divorces are not many heartbreaking

things, heartbreaking stories.

Uh but now as the time is changing, the definition

of blog is changing as well.

Uh so, but there are some famous love stories that

we are interested in and we who studies literature, we

are first, we We study Romeo and Juliet by Brilliant

six Pierre.

Everyone knows about it about them.

They love their internal internal love.

It's fictional.

But the passion, the mhm that excitement and everything was

so so it is so just liked by everyone because

I think deep down everyone wants this kind of love.

Uh so yes, Romeo and Juliet is a famous love

story, then comes face and Helen of God.

Uh it's about it's about their love lead to a

war as I know X to mythology where despite being

married, Helen fall, Helen fell in love with berries and

run away too to try with paris and which leads

which lead to the destruction of the city of try.

So it is also a very deep love story.

Then comes the famous and uh controversial love of an

Berlin love story of an Berlin and Henry that eight

Henry that it is a true love story and Henry

The eight um To marry Anne Boleyn Henry The eight

abolish the Church of England and made it protested, which

was a very, very, very, such a big step, which

is a big step for England, for the crown of

England and the monarchy.

It changed a lot of things after this period.

And at last Bonnie and Clyde, there are, there are

a lot more new.

There absolutely is not a lot more new and they're

criminals as another effect.

They're criminals, but they tend to stay, stay and rob

together. They drove the car and rob many families, many

houses and at last they were killed both together.

Buy some polish police, that's all.

So I think you all have understand what is love

and why do we love?

But how do we fall in love?

Wow. I have an understanding as well.

And so we think we have a long way to

go to understand why you fall in love about

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