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Advanced English II

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Unit 1: Task 2 - Collaborative Activity 1 - Agony aunt
Advanced English II
Wilfredo Velasco
- She is not the girl I fell in love with
You should understand, that you made a mistake because you should have known her better, my advice is try to know more deeply people who you want to have a relationship so that you do not suffer disappointment
A committed couple is attentive and supportive. She is willing to give up or give in without resentment when the situation warrants it, because she cares honestly about what you feel and the best way to help her grow.
Else you must understand that the most important thing is to be happy with someone who supports you and respects you, but especially who is with you because he sincerely wants you.
It is clear than this woman is taking advantage of you and seeks you only for interest. also you would start for loving yourself because this is not the way to carry a relationship completely leaves this person and you will see that eventually that person who really loved you will appear, not thinking that she is looking for you just because he needs something like money.

- This man is lying to my daughter
Dear friend
you should understand that these situations of problems in relationships are very difficult to advise, since the decisions and point of view that you take with respect to them could not be taken into account, you should talk to her and make her understand what she is feeling is great, that it is beautiful when we are in love but that without respect there is no love. Besides you could suggest to her that to love is an act of loyalty and self-love and that she is worth a lot
Take the opportunity to talk about what you think is an appropriate behavior, and what you think is inappropriate in their relationship. Speak her without comparisons or orders that she feel that you do not criticize her on contrary you understand her and you want to give her some advices.
Finally I would like to share you that there are loves that can be painful and harmful and sometimes when we see suffering our daughters or sons for fell in love can be hard, but it is something we cannot avoid something that they must live as one more experience. The important thing is to demonstrate to them that they have our support

- Why is she such a scrooge?
Hello dear.
I would suggest you understand this, when we wait for something in return we are not giving anything really honestly I think if this act so much mortifies you do not give anything if it really does not leave your heart to require others to fulfill our expectations as to what they give us is an act interest and bad taste and more for our family, you must think that there are simple details that have more value than the most expensive gift simply because they give with effort with love and sincerity
Dear friend, the details and the gestures of love do not have to become an exchange or an obligation, even if you do not believe it, those miserable gifts of which you complain may be more valuable than the expensive gifts you make to your nephews, they are more sincere than sentimental value than material
So dear friend I invite you to learn to thank and always give without expecting anything in return in a few words to give with your heart.

- Sex matters
Dear friend:
I want you to know when the sexual relationship is based on love, the feeling can improve our sensations and enjoy for both in the moment as well as after, as opposed to sex for pleasure is possible that this is the case of your partner
The relationship is not a space to repress or contain, do not cling to things or people do not continue with them and if it bitter our soul.
You should keep in mind that we deserve to be loved because of this it is very important that you analyze your situation to foster a healthy relationship where you find a lot of respect.
By no means you do not have to endure anything this propitiates a little harmonious atmosphere in your relationship which will be reflected in your home, with your family, with your friends and of course with yourself. My true advice is you do not decide to put up with everything because you think it's the only way to love and this will end up hurting and deteriorating, the person who starts to give everything or live according to the wishes of others goes against ourselves

Jonathan Ferney Reina
- She is not the girl I fell in love with
I’d rather not be in his wrong; the love is a process that you build. Nevertheless, there was any problem in that occasion, the both love so much, even though you is annoy with her, I feel that both there were really charm, I shouldn’t have judged to us, because, I think that each person, life and situation is different , I’d rather not go to generalize. But I believe that the more powerful tool in these cases is dialogue. Moreover, you could have dialogued with her. And there should have been more comprehension before; I knew that this relationship was weakness more, when you saw the clothes imposition by her. On the other hand there will be a big problem in that relationship if you don’t’ get in her shoes; because, I don’t think that, there won’t be happiness without tolerance in the love.

- This man is lying to my daughter
I could give an advice for you, I feel that you love so much her daughter as others fathers too, I’d rather not give that advice, because I’m not father, nevertheless, but if I’d been father, I could have more answer in a way, nevertheless I have a beautiful sister that I was witness that, in other words my father was some similar with her, also, but I’ve seen in some cousins that were victim by her fathers, I’d rather not tall my past private live, I think that she is feeling secure and patient with her boyfriend and her happiness is more important, moreover If she had seen some suspicious in her boyfriend, she could have given the reason to her father, because the arbitrary imposition in the choose the relationships for her daughters, there will be a serious traumatic an low satisfaction in your relationships. However, I feel that the strength relationships with her parents and confidence dialogue, there will be better decision and tolerance by fathers

- Why is she such a scrooge?
A: Dear Friend:
I consider that you there should have been more polite and grateful with her, because, I say to you, don’t look a gift-horse in the mouth, well, because in my opinion is bad education observe with disgust the gifts that were given by others. Moreover, I think that maybe, you don’t know the economic situation of her, on the other hand the before affirmation can be possible truth. However there has to be more communication with the family her

- Sex matters
Dear friend:
I consider that you, since first time you shouldn’t have allowed that he touch to you, because there had to have been more clear the relationships as friends between both. Although this trouble is some indecisive and indecent by them, on the other hand, I think that her friend have an emotional psychology problem, because he can’t define clear or assume his acts in bad condition that he’s drunk, then there will be a damage in her affective live. In addition, have sex unaware it could have been repented pregnant.

Carolina Triviño
- She is not the girl I fell in love with
A: Dear reader I regret your situation, sometimes the love is very hard and include deceptions and this is a clear example about the little love that she feels. The relationships do not build in economic conveniences, you could have taken more time for know her and in the different situations because all the people change every day and she was an unknown person and if you had more caution, you would have other experience about all this story.

- This man is lying to my daughter
A: Dear reader, the world is full of liars and people do not have values, so I think that you have to talk about the topic with your daughter and with arguments show her the suspicious behavior about her boyfriend, she should have left this man weather not, you already accomplish with your responsibility like a parent, the decision is only taken for her, independently of the result you should not have overwhelmed you, she is and adult and needs to affront the difficulties about life.

- Why is she such a Scrooge?
A: the gifts are a pretty form of express different feelings, if your sister in law have this annoying meanness you would have bought other things to your nephews for example invitations for go to a park, in a restaurant or another place that been impossible to re-gift the present. Your sister has to be creative a buy her own present to give. So, you can conserve your patience this is not a big problem for importunate your mother in low. The other option is talk with her and express the annoying situation and find the reasons and the solution for the wellbeing for the family.

-Sex matters
A: honey the life is beautiful and anybody have to put up with any situation if you feel that it hurts, you should have left this man, he does not love you, and you would have imagined the rest of your life with a person that do not respect you, and needs to be drunk for touch you, you have to finish this relationship and you should start meditation that help you to increase a self-love for love others.
Javier Alexander Aguirre
- She is not the girl I fell in love with
A. for my part I leave my opinion responding to this bad situation where without wanting, without knowing and many times without just imagining us; you can reach or we can spend or have spent some time in the life of looking for a figure and think that we are going to meet that person that we think that can be the complement and that company that won us have a good realcion.
everything you see is that it can be and I encourage you to look at this type of people in all sorts of scenarios, we know them and we realize with lived criteria and not just what is perceived.

- This man is lying to my daughter
dear companion: I know that these situations are a little complicated and difficult because it is known that there are feelings between and when you want someone it is difficult to accept the reasons but however hard they are, we must sometimes accept reality and take action in the matter and that he realizes that this person does not suit you but it is also good to show evidence to prove the accusations
It is hard to know this at some point but it is better to know and not live forever.

- Why is she such a Scrooge?
. I tell you that many times we think and do things according to how we believe even other times with the intention with which we give them but so we do not like a gift, it is not so that we disgust nor do we get angry with these people since we do not know the why of things and we do not get to imagine what the other person really can have. many times we must take into account is the intention and the good will.
I think and encourage that we approach these people and look with observation from other types of view

- Sex matters
thank you very much for sharing your news and regarding what I explained I would like to help you because it is an issue that you need to give a professional ayda since your partner has a serious problem with alcohol and this has to do with the manifestations that you have said but more than this what we need is to recognize their shortcomings and let them help to overcome this problem and thus save the relationship.
Juan Felipe Páez
- She is not the girl I fell in love with: Answer: Dear friend: She might be the one you are looking for, she might not
Dear friend. You must realize this: When you meet a person online things might be different from what you expect. When you want to fall in love with a person you should first know all their background, including their friends, family and life goals. Meeting someone requires time. If you want to know a person, first, you have to give her time to express who she is and what she thinks. Having things in common is only one of the aspects you could like from a person. One of the most important things is to know this person well, her moral values, her goals, her ways of thing regarding many aspects in life, such as easy things like food, clothes, beliefs, profession and so others. In this point you must see the next aspects. Separating love from a critical way of thinking regarding that person is difficult, but in this moment you should begin evaluating many aspects of the relationship. You would begin by analyzing how well YOU fell with the relationship in this moment. Is it healthy for you? Is it enriching for you? Moreover, do you see her as your future wife? All of this answers must be written in a chart where you evaluate positive and negative aspects of the relationship. Then you must put into a “balance” the positive and negative aspects of this relationship and evaluate and take a decision whether to keep or end this relationship. Remember my friend, there are more than 4.000.000.000 women in the world but only one true love! Choose wisely.

- This man is lying to my daughter: Answer: Hello my friend. Nowadays this is something common. You shouldn´t be afraid of this. First of all, think that, most of people are cheating today. You must believe that this man will no longer be with your daughter anymore. Soon or later he will disappear of your life and your daughter´s life. You must find the right words to tell your daughter that he is not a good person for her. You could begin by telling her that love is sometime complicated. You must make her know that we you are in love you tend to be bling. Then, show her some real proves that this guy is cheating on her. Then, with a firm voice, ask her to leave her boyfriend immediately or thinks might get worst in the future. Don´t worry, if you do the things right he will disappear from your life.

- Why is she such a scrooge? Answer: Being a scrooge is something ridiculous from some point of view. However you must consider that some people might not think as you think. In your believe gifts are very important aspects in your family as I can see. However, you must think that, for some people gifts are not the big deal and they prefer to invest the money in other issues. However, you must be patient to her. If you want to talk to her, remember, you must do it in a quiet environment, you must use a good tone of voice and you should use the right words to express her that you don´t feel comfortable with the situation. You can´t be sarcastic and show your mad. You must talk to her in a peaceable way to understand her and avoid discussions

- Sex matter: Answer: Dear friend. First you should be focused towards the real problem in your partner´s life. The problem is not sex, the problem is his addiction to alcohol. If you want to change your relationship with him, you must focus all your efforts towards his addiction. You must help him to overcome this problem and help him to abandon alcohol. If you can change this bad habit in your partner, your relationship will improve and you could enjoy your sexual relations in a natural environment.
Complain by Juan Felipe
You just can't get into someone's life like, telling me that I didn't know this girl enough if you read my problem, you may notice I know her really well. I know her deeply and I know the way she thinks and how she takes her decisions. So, don't tell me I have to know her deeply, because I do know who she is. In this point I don't think she is taking advantage of me, this is how things work nowadays, if you love someone, you have to spend money on her. That is the sad truth, there is nothing I could do for that, anyway, thank you so much for your answer
Complain by Wilfredo
Hello respected agony aunt , according with your answer to my letter I disagree with you because I was expecting an answer as if you were a real mother, but I think your answer is disengaged for me . Else you gave me your sister as example and the feelings about daughters and sisters are different since a mother worries more about her daughter than a sister. I think you do not imagine how much it is affecting me because she is all for me and I want to protect her, I do not want to see her suffering for loving. So you really disappoint me. Any way thanks for you advices but I will try to help her alone and I suggest you next time you must worry more for people.
Complain by Javier
I received your advise and I agree with your arguments but I already talked to him and I want to know what else I could do?

I shoul like to know what can be a good way and what strategy shall use to find the truth to all this happening and that affects a lot to the daughter

I can talk to him so that he comes to reason and he realizes that nobody will like to be in that position where they cheat and make him suffer in such an obvious way because they can show photos where they commit him with other companies

you never have to endure this type of situation although the woman also has a degree of guilt for letting this become a problem where she will continue to support it? she can do it....
Complain by Jonathan
You should understand, that you made a mistake because you should have known her better, my advice is try to know more deeply people who you want to have a relationship so that you do not suffer disappointment

A committed couple is attentive and supportive. She is willing to give up or give in without resentment when the situation warrants it, because she cares honestly about what you feel and the best way to help her grow.

Else you must understand that the most important thing is to be happy with someone who supports you and respects you, but especially who is with you because he sincerely wants you. It is clear than this woman is taking advantage of you and seeks you only for interest. also you would start for loving yourself because this is not the way to carry a relationship completely leaves this person and you will see that eventually that person who really loved you will appear, not thinking that she is looking for you just because he needs something like money.

in the final part where you advise the man leave this person, I don't agree totaly, because I suggest that the man should first to dialogue with her where he must specific the clear thinks in which he just annoy her, and if she can accept him without money then they will be love correctly.
Complain by Carolina
Dear Agony Aunt I understand your point of view about the familiar relations based on love and peace, I don’t want to disturb my mother in law. But the annoying actions for my step sister are angry other familiars, and is very justified that she become aware of the bad action that she did. Its better if she doesn’t have money she should have made other things for replace the material gift, for example a letter, poster or card, this is a better present and we understand the significant gesture of love. Because is more polite this, that you re gift the presents given. So, thanks for your words I appreciate it, only I promise that I will try to make other strategies more paceful and I will continue with other plans. Thanks
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