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HPHS 2014 up2us:men against abuse QSI

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Transcript of HPHS 2014 up2us:men against abuse QSI

There are no innocent bystanders
What we tolerate we teach...
What we permit we promote!
NO ONE is safe
until EVERYONE
is safe
AGREEMENTS
1. Confidentiality
2. Respect
3. "I" Statements
4. Right to Pass/Return
5. Be Here & Now!
Values Voting #2
UESTION
NAMES
ACTIONS
Q
S
I
Embarrassed
Ashamed
Powerless
Failure
Hopeless
Less than a Man
Values Voting #1
In general, men who are dating women should pay for the dates.
A man should take any type of job in order to support himself and his children.
Myself
My Sister
My Best Friend
My Brother
My Family
My Cousin's Daughter
My Mom
My Future Children
My Niece
I want to make the world safe for...
muscular
has lots of sex
only with women
doesn't
smoke
hairy
big
sports car
never
smiles
sweaty
doesn't get tied down
nice teeth
short hair
abs
attractive/handsome
looks like
Johnny Depp
suits
muscle shirts
chinos
shorts
drives fast
truck
musky
cologne
good
heaven
soap
flowers
smell like a man
axe
no prius
not weak
strong
fix things
gym
decisive
doesn't
dance
fight
kind
understanding
honest
hero
brave
grill
doesn't
cook
labeled
We believe we can make this
world a safer place if we
acknowledge
that it is

UPPORT
NTERRUPT
ANGER

Morgan

Henry
Bradley
1 in 5
1 in 3
1 in 6
90%
1 in 28
girls will be sexually abused by the age of 18
1 in 3
women will be impacted by intimate partner violence
boys will be sexually abused by the age of 18
men & women will be impacted by domestic & sexual violence
of that violence is being perpetrated by men
men will perpetrate domestic & sexual violence
27 out of 28
question support interrupt
question support interrupt
motorcycle
boots
flannel
shirts
jeans
provider
teacher
lawyer
construction worker
mechanic
steak
whisky
beer
pizza
veggies
water
pasta
meat
robbed
mugged
punched
stabbed
raped
beat up
ostracized
lose kids
dumped
fired
punished
wimp
fag
sissy
pansy
girl
gay
wuss
punk
bitch
ACT LIKE A MAN...
muscular
hairy
big
sports car
nice teeth
short hair
abs
attractive/handsome
looks like
Johnny Depp
suits
chinos
shorts
drives fast
truck
cologne
good
heaven
soap
flowers
smell like a man
axe
no prius
motorcycle
boots
flannel
shirts
jeans
provider
teacher
lawyer
construction worker
mechanic
steak
whisky
beer
pizza
veggies
water
pasta
meat
right back
into the
box
ACT OUT
drive fast
scream
work-out
substance abuse
take a bath
rape
punch/kick
bully
DV
ACT IN
depression
heart problems
ulcers
hair loss
headaches
anxiety
eating disorders
provider
@up2usQSI
#QSI14

addictions
listen to music
WHY do I care?
PATERNO
N
M
J
ot
y
ob
27 out of 28
Adriana
Gianni
Veronica
Gilez
Jessica
Gabriel
Adam
Ryan
Rily
Abraham
Jacob
Margaret
Jack

Morgan

Henry
Bradley
Rory
Fernando
Elijah
Aidan
facebook.com/up2usqsi
has lots of sex
only with women
doesn't
smoke
never
smiles
doesn't get tied down
not weak
strong
fix things
gym
decisive
doesn't
dance
fight
kind
understanding
honest
hero
brave
grill
doesn't
cook
muscle shirts
Adriana
Gianni
Veronica
Gilez
Jessica
Gabriel
Adam
Ryan
Rily
Abraham
Jacob
Margaret
Jack

Morgan

Henry
Bradley
Rory
Fernando
Elijah
Aidan
up2usqsi.org
question support interrupt
question support interrupt
CAUSES
OF
VIOLENCE
CHANGE
It is up2us
to QUESTION

PREVENTION
VS
INTERRUPTION
up2usqsi
Your own values, attitudes and assumptions.
Normalized language & behaviors that are harmful.
Stereotypes.
Your own action or inaction.

It is up2us
to SUPPORT

The "UPstander": A person who takes action, particularly when the easiest or most acceptable course is to do nothing.
Those who are different from us.
By choosing language & behaviors that are inclusive & non-judgmental.

It is up2us
to INTERRUPT

Our own thoughts if they are judgmental or intolerant.
Harmful language and behaviors.
Violence and abuse when it is safe to do so.
The more we QUESTION and SUPPORT (Prevention)
The less we will need to INTERRUPT (Intervention)
QSI
=
Change
QSI
Self-correction
Personal Change
Societal Change
CULTURAL CHANGE
You have
the potential to be a
perpetrator,
a bystander
OR
an UPstander.
What do you choose?
We see
about
3,000
media
IMAGES
A DAY
.
Of those 3,000 images a day,
WE ONLY
consciously
PROCESS
8%
of those images.

Thus,
our subconscious
is being bombarded
daily with images...
telling us what to wear,
eat, drink, say
, etc.

1 in 4
people experience bullying
Values
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