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Talking kids 2014

Talking kids 2014
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Nellie Carter

on 11 June 2014

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Transcript of Talking kids 2014

I hate
my teacher!
I'm going to
punch my brother
in the face!
School
sucks!

You can't
make me eat
my supper!
Children are
people;

children are
not adults.
Feelings
govern
behaviour
Feelings
govern
behaviour
You can choose to
set the table, or you
can choose to clear the table.
PUNISHMENT:
To impose a harsh penalty;
To suffer from one's actions
PUNISHMENT:
To impose a harsh penalty;
To suffer from one's actions
You still haven't
tidied your room!
It's disgusting
and pure laziness!
You are such
a bully! He is
just a toddler!

How many times
must I ask you to brush
your teeth? Why must I
always beg or threaten
before anything
gets done?!
I don't like
our new house
Don't be silly!
Of course you will,
you haven't
even tried yet.
POWER
ASSERTION
I'm not
tired. I don't
want to sleep
Stop whining
and get to bed right now!
I want to quit
tennis...
What do you mean
you want to quit tennis?
Is it because you lost
the tournament?
How can you just quit
after three months?
You will never be
good at anything if you
just give up without trying.
How do you expect to get anywhere in life with this attitude?
This is the third
time I've spoken about
playing with a ball near
the windows. Your pocket
money will be used to
replace the glass.
TYPICAL MISBEHAVIOUR:

Arguing

Tantrums

Crying & whining

Physical ailments

Biting & kicking

Sulking
Beds are for
sleeping, not
for jumping
I expect to know
where you go after school,
when you don't come
straight home.
Stop arguing!
You're driving
me insane!
Your cat needs
to be fed regularly
so she can grow
strong and healthy

Get off that
cellphone right now
or else you can't go
to the party this
weekend!
Do you think this
is a hotel? Should
I just wait until
you're ready
to eat?
Mom, I'm
not hungry
right now.
We are going to
your sister's school play. At school plays we sit quietly and whisper if we want
to speak.
You can't
go for dinner.
What about me?
You feel sad that
Mom & I are
going for dinner
without you?
I get upset
when I can't find
the TV remote
where it
belongs!
I want a
puppy right
now!
Imagine our garden
was filled with all the
puppies in the world.
You could play with each
one every day.

Go away!
I will not be
spoken to like
that
Bath time!
Spike didn't get
brushed or taken for a walk
yesterday. Sorry you can't
see your friends today, because Spike needs
you now.
I don't feel
like going to
school

Oh,
I see..

Warmth
Acceptance
You are loved
Talking Feelings
Talking Behaviour
Talking Discipline
All feelings
are permitted
ADDRESS
BEHAVIOUR;
NOT
CHARACTER
ADDRESS
BEHAVIOUR;
NOT
CHARACTER
PUNISHMENT
or
DISCIPLINE
CORPORAL PUNISHMENT
DISCIPLINE
:
Train someone to do something
in a controlled and habitual way.
Constructive Conflict
Reason
Negotiate
Resolve
Constructive Conflict
Reason
Negotiate
Resolve
You can choose to
take turns on the iPad and
carry on playing your games,
or you can choose to
continue screaming, and have
the iPad removed from
both of you.
Which do you choose?
Target the behaviour,
not the child's character

All feelings
are permitted
Attend
Reflect
Pretend
What's the
issue?
Share
knowledge
One word
I, not you
Give a
choice

Prepare
Strong
disapproval
Expectation
Give a
choice

Natural
consequence
Self
empowerment
Problem
Solving
Modelling
POWER
ASSERTION
You are capable
You are supported
naughty
punish
frustrated
alleviate
confused
naughty
punish
clarify
naughty
punish
angry
calm down
naughty
punish
disempowered
empower
Talking General
Attend
Reflect
Pretend
What's the issue?
Share your knowledge
One word
I, not you
The choice
Prepare
Strong disapproval
Give a choice
Expectations
Natural consequence
The use of physical force with the intention of causing a child to experience pain, but not injury, for the purpose of correction or control of the child's behaviour.
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