Report V.S. Rapport
Talk
Conflict
- Men are more comfortable with conflict
- Women tend to avoid conflict at all costs
Movie CLip
What type of Report Vs. Rapport Talk do you see in the clip?
Movie CLip
What type of talk do you see in this clip?
INVITE YOU..
Activity # 1
In your group come up with a one minute skit using one of the five types of talk we discussed
Activity #2
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Questions??
Asking Questions
Listening:
Telling a Story:
Telling a Story
&
Listening
- "Men don't ask for that kind of help."
- Women ask questions to establish a connection with others
- Tag questions: "Don't you think?"
- Book: You Just Don't Understand
Private Speaking Vs. Public Speaking
Women:
- tend to hold eye contact, offer head nods, and react with "yea,uh-huh."
- Cooperative Loop
Men:
- tend to avoid putting themselves in a submissive stance
Women think Men dont't listen
Men annoy Women and Women annoy Men
Who tells the most stories?
- Men
- Jokes
- "Can you top this?"
- Hero overcoming a great obstacle
Women
- express their desire by telling stories about others
- Acting foolish>Cleaver Manner
- Stronger Network Support
- Women talk more than men in private conversations. EX: wordy-women-mute-male steretype
- Men talk more than women in public conversations EX: One-up position
What is Rapport and Report Talk?
Rapport: The typical conversational style of women, which seeks to establish connection with others.
Report Talk: The typical monologic style of men, which seeks to command attention, convey information, and win arguments.
Breaking it down...
What is Rapport?
What is Report?
5 Types of Talk:
1. Private Speaking VS Public Speaking
2. Telling a Story
3. Listening
4. Asking Questions
5. Conflict