You've got this.
Now you just have to believe in yourself.
I wish you could see yourself the way I see you...because I KNOW you can do this. There is absolutely NO doubt in my mind. I love you more than ANYTHING and I believe in you SO much.
And I will be right beside you for all the ups and downs, for the great successes and for the times you feel hopeless. I promise to make sure you never lose hope and never give up...because I want to be the one by your side when you finally get to say "I did it."
And I believe in you with all of my heart because I see all of your potential and ambition and I just know that you have great things ahead because a door will open or knowing you, you'll go and open it yourself or find some other way. I know you'll achieve your goals.
Why You Should Believe In Yourself
Because You Have Me By Your Side
No Matter What.
Examples of you overcoming challenges:
- childhood: you were abused, but you now have a healthy relationship w/ her and you turned out fine (wonderful, actually)...many kids who experience that develop behavioral problems, trust issues, lack of respect for authority, hatred towards parents,etc. You overcame.
- past relationships: you've had your heart broken and you've been cheated on numerous times...that's pretty crappy luck compared to what most people go through, but you didn't give up. You kept an open mind and an open heart. You didn't shut love out to protect yourself from being hurt again, but you welcomed it knowing the risks. Now you've found love and truly appreciate it's worth. I love you so much.
- school: you have to balance school with a full-time job and a long-distance relationship. That's way more than most have to deal with. I know last semester was rough, but through that, you were able to learn your limits. This semester, you tried again at an online class even though you knew it'd be hard for you like it had been before (esp. because you dont care for the topic). Look how well you're doing though!I can't tell you enough how proud I am of you.
- our relationship: We knew it'd be a challenge from the start. Between long-distance, your job (with rotating schedules), and both of our schooling. Heck, you had to drive two hours back and forth just to meet me. Look at us still going strong almost 7 months later...that's because you give it your all and do whatever it takes to make it work. You are dedicated, determined, driven, goal oriented; and you make this work.
You are so strong. I am so proud of and thankful for you.
From Day One...
You can do it!
You were one of the most charming people I have ever met. You completely knocked me off my feet and brought so much happiness and just light into my life. I am super shy, but with you, I felt at ease and comfortable. It was so natural. You were just so quirky, silly, witty, intelligent, kind, down-to-Earth, genuine, confident, personable, and accepting. You were just yourself...and that was perfect.
I also gathered that you had drive. You had goals and ambitions. You are someone who knows what you want and will do what it takes to get there. You have great things ahead.
Look at yourself...
Do you know what I see?
- a total stud
- a wonderful man
- a pure &good heart
- a desire to do good things for others
- a successful man who should be proud of himself (even if he doesn't like his job)
- someone with great things ahead of him
- the love of my life