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good evening, e ride a hard time growing up where
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your parents were telling you.
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I told you so.
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No to almost everything.
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Or did you have rules that were much more harder
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at home than you did at school?
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Yeah. Hi, My name is 10 and I'm here to
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inform you guys about strict parenting and helicopter parents.
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We will also be disclosing about the different parenting styles
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that we that they have and how.
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But these different parenting styles can affect your kids first.
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Let's start with the different parenting styles, so there are
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four different parenting styles.
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We have the authoritarian parenting styles.
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You have the authoritative parenting styles.
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We have permissive parenting styles, and we also have the
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uninvolved parenting styles.
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But today we're going to go stick with the authority
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in Terrence authoritarian parenting styles because this is much closer
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to helicopter parents and strict parenting.
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Yes, what is on the authoritarian parenting?
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So what we have here is we have seven different
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types, seven forms of authoritarian parenting styles.
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So what number one is thes?
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Parents believe that kids should be seen and not hurt,
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so you're not allowed to be different.
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You can't do a certain thing.
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You have to follow a certain thing to make you
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feel like you are on top.
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This is what parents think to ah parents.
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These parents are thinking that it's my way or the
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highway. It's funny you ever had your parents tell you
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that where they said You have to do this my
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way because it's not your house yet It's my house
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or it's my you're living here.
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It's not your place yet.
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Mhm three, three, uh, famous words from almost any parents
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because I said so when you're either doing something and
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they said, You have to do this Yes, Why similar
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to it's my way or the highway.
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But parents say, because I said so, make them feel
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like they have more power.
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Four. Um, these parents have rules, and they enforce the
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consequences. So these two are kind of different from each
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other. There are rules that you have to follow.
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Yes, and then there's consequences.
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If you don't follow these rules, something bad can happen.
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Five. Hi, um, these punishments arm or then discipline.
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So with punishments, you let's say you've done something wrong.
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Like forgot to do one of your tours.
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Your parents can take away your phone as a punishment.
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But with discipline, kids are Your parents would be talking
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to you saying Oh, no, please don't forget to do
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this. Or don't you know they would actually talk to
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you instead of showing you what punishment showing on you.
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What the What you did wrong or telling you what
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they did wrong As we finished talking about the authoritarians
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authoritarians parenting, Let's see how it affects your kids health.
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So we have different types of things that your kid
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could be affected by it.
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We have aggressive.
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You know how kids could be aggressive toward somebody.
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Um, you know, it's harder to throw away that anger
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that they had or, you know, in this case, when
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on authoritative parent or strict parents shows them that something
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is right, they think that they have the power to
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do the same thing because, you know, monkey see, monkey
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do when you see your parents think that.
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You know, this was right that you think that somebody
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was wrong.
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But you think that you were right.
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Someone you can even be aggressive towards them saying No,
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I was right.
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This is my way.
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I know my way is the highway.
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We have lack of confidence and self esteem.
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And this is a big one because your parents were
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isn't weren't there for you.
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And you saw that it was hard and they didn't
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help you.
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Push didn't push you up the hill.
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You had to push that rock up the hill by
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yourself. They weren't there to help you.
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Um, rebellious is one of them.
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Because you know when when we go into our teenage
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years an adult way, we learn our freedom.
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We learned that.
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Oh, yes.
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We can finally be free and do whatever we want
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and learn to stop listening to our parents because we
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reached the age of adulthood.
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Okay, um, we also have this is quoted higher risk
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of developing self esteem problems because our values were not
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evaluated. Our opinions were not violated.
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But we also have, um, undeveloped life skills, undeveloped coping
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skills and sense of entitlement.
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So, in conclusion, we have learned that strict parenting, um,
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helicopter parents is that falls into the category of authoritative
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and parents because they're very similar to each other.
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We have also learned the different the four different types
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of parenting styles and how it effects your kids health.
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Thank you for watching.
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And I hope you guys have a nice day.