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Prezi presentation adapted from content by Nir Eyal; original available at: https://www.nirandfar.com/schedule-maker/
Although Seneca’s words are more than two thousand years old, they are just as applicable today.
Seneca, the Roman Stoic philosopher, wrote, “People are frugal in guarding their personal property, but as soon as it comes to squandering time, they are most wasteful of the one thing in which it is right to be stingy.”
Take a moment and think of all the ways people steal your time.
Did you plan to wake up and pray or meditate?
But your teenager can’t find
the shirt they wanted to wear
to school today. What do you do?
Did you abandon your plans to join the hunt?
When you get to work and sit down at your desk to work on that new client proposal, you’re interrupted by Jim in Accounting.
After you finish your chat with
Jim, you see your email inbox is overflowing with 30 new messages.
You’re reacting to demands on your time that distract you from what you were supposed to do this morning.
Of course, other people love
the fact that you pivot to their priorities and away from your own.
Your employer loves knowing you’ll respond to every email, even if it means working long nights and weekends.
Also, your family loves knowing you will do things for them they could have done themselves.
And finally, your teenager could have looked for their own shirt.
Why do we make decisions that lead to this sort of overworked, over-stressed, and ultimately unproductive day?
Many of us claim we just don’t have enough time in the day to get everything done, but is that true?
The average American spends
Calculate the time you spend browsing the web, watching TV, and doing other miscellaneous non-work related tasks, and chances are you will find the time you’re missing.
5.5
hours
per day on leisure.
Seneca noted that people protect their physical property in all sorts of ways, but most do little to protect their time.
A study by PPAI Research found that only one-third of Americans use a daily schedule. This means the vast majority of people wake up every morning with no real plans for how they want to spend their day.
People don't guard their most precious asset: their time. Instead, they leave it for the taking. The fact is if you don’t plan your day, someone else will.
A distraction is something we do that moves us away from what we want. Traction is something we do that moves us towards what we want. The difference between traction and distraction is intent.
Any action can be either a distraction
or traction depending on what we
intend to do with our time. Relying
upon our feelings at the moment is risky.
The only way to know what we want is to define our wants by planning in advance.
According to research, countless people share the struggle of managing their time. When asked what task they were distracted from, many people have trouble answering the question.
People don't recall what they were planning to do. Upon reviewing their calendars to see their intentions, blank white space abounds.
If there is only one takeaway, it's this:
You can’t call something a distraction unless you know what it is distracting you from.
Now let’s dive into how
to use a schedule maker.
The German philosopher and statesman Johann Wolfgang von Goethe thought of it this way: He believed the way someone spends their time can tell you everything. “If I know how you spend your time,” he writes, “then I know what might become of you.”
When it comes to using a schedule maker and planning your schedule, where do you begin? You should start with your values. Values are attributes of the person you want to be.
For example, your values may include being an honest person, being a loving parent, or being a valued member of a team.
According to Russ Harris, a physician, therapist, and author of The Happiness Trap, values are “how we want to be, what we want to stand for, and how we want to relate to the world around us.”
Values are not ended goals but rather guidelines for your actions.
Although each of us may subscribe to different values, it’s helpful to categorize them into three overlapping life domains.
You, relationships, and work.
These three domains describe where and with whom we live out our values. Most importantly, they give us something we can use in the planning process.
Analyzing the domains of our life will help us take control of the way we spend our time. This practice will help us become an authentic reflection of the person we want to be.
Daniel Goleman, author of Focus:
The Hidden Driver of Excellence, relates the domains of our life to how we split our attention.
Goleman describes “inner,” “outer,” or “other” focus, aligning with self, others, and the world around us.
Successful people, Goleman claims, maintain the “triad of awareness” because “a failure to focus inward leaves you rudderless, a failure to focus on others renders you clueless, and a failure to focus outward may leave you blindsided.”
By using a schedule maker to build your weekly schedule template, you now have a clear plan to discuss with those who place the largest demands on your time.
First, meet with your partner and review your weekly plan. Make tweaks and adjustments where needed.
Set a dedicated time each week to review your calendars. During that time, look over each other’s plan for the week and make sure enough time is set aside for managing your household and spending time together as a family.
Next, discuss your schedule with your boss and share your intention to stick to a planned-out day. This action will help you align your priorities and goals with the preferences of your boss.
After you co-plan your schedule you might find you don’t need to attend as many meetings.
This co-planning phase will help to keep you on your career track, as well as any promotions you’re working towards.
Set up a recurring time to sync with your boss and review your schedule to ensure you’re spending your time well.
Once you have a template in place, it will only take a few minutes to reflect, refine, and revise your weekly schedule.
It isn’t to commit to a perfectly strict plan. The idea is to use the schedule maker to set up a routine to improve your schedule over time.
The goal is to have a weekly template that serves as a default template to return to and make slight revisions week after week.
This weekly template allows you to get better at understanding how long tasks take and making sure you make time for actions that reflect your values.
Let’s review the benefits of your first timebox template.
When you have a tough time keeping track of time, you make the grave mistake of over-allocating time, resulting in the suffering of the stakeholders in your life.
That’s why in the same way we budget our dollars, we need to budget our time.
Create a template for yourself that shows a hypothetical, perfect week consistent with your values.
When creating your schedule maker template, consider each domain of your life and don’t leave any time slots open during waking hours.
This practice will allow you to hold a place for everything important in properly allocated time slots, ensuring your most vital priorities don’t fall through the cracks.
Daniel Goleman, author of Focus:
The Hidden Driver of Excellence, relates the domains of our life to how we split our attention.
Prioritize and plan self-care time, think critically about how much time you need for sleep, basic hygiene, exercise, leisure time and any other essentials for well-being.
Next, fill in the day with the next top priority after taking care of yourself, like spending time with family and friends.
Now layer in time for work. Scheduling might not come naturally, but push through your initial discomfort, and enjoy the outcome.
This new schedule will give you a clear view of your entire week down to the minute while respecting your values and reducing distractions.
Now that you have your calendar painted in broad strokes according to the three domains of your life, try to dig deeper into your work time.
Break up your workday by your most important tasks.
Carve out time for work that requires the most focus. This step will help you avoid diversions that slow you down and pose challenges.
Reserve time for items that require less focus for the afternoon.
Avoid the strain of over-commitments that limit your productivity and take a toll on your sanity
Now layer in time for work. Scheduling might not come naturally, but push through your initial discomfort, and enjoy the outcome.
This new schedule will give you a clear view of your entire week down to the minute while respecting your values and reducing distractions.