1. Learn the history of the MBTI
2. Discuss its importance & purpose
3. Explore the meaning of each trait
4. Delve into the nuances of our types
5. Learn to understand one another's personality, preferences, needs
6. Discuss how to put this knowledge into action in the workplace
7. Conclusion
"Personality" derived from the Latin "persona" which means "mask".
Personality psychology: study of the personas people project & inner parts of experience we call "the self"
"It feels like astrology, but real"
A way to look inward
Getting to know people better
Self-improvement
Where do I fit?
POPULARITY
DOWNTON ABBEY
(for Theresa)
The first Myers Briggs questionnaire was published in 1943 and it is now the "world's most popular personality instrument"
Myers and Briggs studied the work of Swiss psychiatrist, Carl Jung, one of the founders of modern-day psychology
He was an INFJ
In his 1921 book Psychological Types, Jung asserted that people have innate differences that shape their personalities. He came up with dichotomies for how people energize, learn, and make decisions.
Katharine Briggs
Most likely an INFJ
She felt that we should seek to understand rather than judge or reject people who are different than us
Isabel Briggs-Myers
She was an INFP and her husband was an ISTJ
Isabel was the primary developer of the MBTI
ADDED THE 4TH DICHOTOMY OF J/P
Not a perfect fit
Reliance on self-awareness
Forces people to choose one or the other
Other factors:
-gender
-culture
-family
-love languages
"It is up to each person to recognize his or her true preferences."
Some people are very balanced (ambiverts)
% MATTERS
All types are equal; there is no best type
Introverts are moody
Extroverts are annoying
Observers are superficial
Intuitors are know-it-alls
Feelers are emo
Thinkers are cold
Judgers are high-strung
Perceivers are unreliable
1
2
ENERGY
INFORMATION
I- introverts
E- extroverts
N- intuitive
S- sensing
3
DECISIONS
4
LIFESTYLE
F- feeling
T- thinking
P- perceiving
J- judging
5
IDENTITY
A- assertive
T- turbulent
Real world: Inner world
Real world: Outer world
47-55%
45-53%
HOW TO CARE FOR EXTROVERTS:
Try to:
Avoid:
HOW TO CARE FOR INTROVERTS:
Try to:
Avoid:
70-75%
25-30%
Specifics
VS
The Big Picture
How do the facts relate?
What interpretation can be made?
What patterns exist?
What are the possibilities?
Remember:
It's all about context and the larger implications
"Perspective"
"Exploration"
35% of intuitives in the world
65% of intuitives in the world
(Amanda
&
Theresa)
(Alex
&
Jen)
Rarest dominant function: only 3-7% of world
8-13 % of the world uses Ne
Big-picture driven
Creativity driven
Go deeper into the same idea & analyze in depth
Go broader by linking one idea to another
Can be too serious, perfectionists
Flexible but bad at daily tasks
Have excellent insights
Are excellent brainstormers
Remember:
Facts, specifics, data, and a plan of action
What has past experience shown us?
What can be verified?
What is observable?
What is going on right now?
Extroverted Sensing
Introverted Sensing
"SENSATION"
"MEMORY"
40-50%
50-60%
LOGICAL
IMPLICATIONS
IMPACT ON PEOPLE
Truth
Justice
Logic
Objective
Task-oriented
Love
Personal
Values
Tact
Praise
People-oriented
THINKING:
FEELING:
What are the logical consequences?
What are the pros and cons?
What will be most effective?
What goal is being served?
How much do I care?
What exceptions need to be made?
What are other people's feelings?
What values are being served?
Introverted Feeling (FP)
Extroverted Feeling (FJ)
"AUTHENTICITY"
"HARMONY"
JUDGERS (J)
PERCEIVERS (P)
"Just do something"
"Let's wait and see"
"Perceiving" is the half of the Cognition Process that focuses on observing and exploring possibilities while adapting to circumstances
Perceiving preference does NOT equal:
Though everyone observes possibilities, a person is considered a Perceiver when they focus on Observation in either the 1st or 2nd step of the Cognition Process
Judgers
Perceivers
ASSERTIVE
TURBULENT
Middle 2 letters
4 unique combinations that show how you process the world around you and make your decisions
SF
NF
ST
SF
Sensing Feelers at Work
MOTTO: "Let's be practical & service-oriented."
NEED TO PROVIDE SERVICE TO OTHERS
Intuitive Feelers at Work
NEED TO EMPOWER
MOTTO: "Let's be insightful & inspiring"
Compatibility
People who share your 2 middle letters will share processes and make decisions in the same way
ISFJ: ESFP or ESTP
ENFP: INFJ or INTJ
INFJ: ENFP or ENTP
People with end letters opposite of yours will complement and balance you
17%
Women
13%
7%
Men
"ISFJs are true altruists, meeting kindness with kindness-in-excess and engaging the work and people they believe in with enthusiasm and generosity."
LIKES RULES & STRUCTURE
SUPERPOWER:
LOYALTY
KRYTONITE:
SELF-SACRIFICE
THE SIXTEEN INTELLIGENCES
IS: Historical
SJ: Preservation
ISFJ
Instructors
Guardians
IF: Intrapersonal
FJ: Communication
Focus on how to do something, mastery, perfecting routines
Artists
Ability to watch & control surroundings. Can protect people and things from harm
Messengers
Who am I and what is my role in the world? Inner social state than outer
Consider everyone's messages & roles to create inclusive group settings
TEACHERS
TUTORS
DOCTORS
NURSES
HISTORIANS
LIBRARIANS
TEAM FRUSTRATION:
"Stop worrying about everyone."
RESPONSE:
"Each team member matters. Attention to each person's needs and wants helps us function well."
9%
7%
6%
"THE CAMPAIGNER"
Women
Men
"ENFPs are fiercely independent, and much more than stability and security, they crave creativity and freedom."
SUPERPOWER:
INSPIRATION
KRYTONITE:
"Grass is Greener" Syndrome
EF: Social
FP: Interpretative
ENFP
Actors
Reporters
EN: Pattern
NP: Creative
Detectives
Rebels
Consider group actions and social motifs. Who are the people around me and how do they impact me?
Brainstorm multiple intentions behind word or action, Capture depth and range of meaning
See patterns and new possibilities. Investigate and follow up on clues.
Ability to think of options, Consider things that are hidden to others
TEAM FRUSTRATION:
"Stop changing your mind and the team's direction."
RESPONSE:
"This team needs to explore all the options."
1%
2-4% of women
1-2% of men
"Every man must decide whether he will walk in the light of creative altruism or in the darkness of destructive selfishness."
-Martin Luther King, Jr.
SUPERPOWER:
FORESIGHT
KRYPTONITE:
PERFECTIONISM
IF: Intrapersonal
INFJ
Artists
NJ: Holistic
IN: Existential
FJ: Communication
Authors
Philosophers
Who am I and what is my role in the world? Inner social state than outer
Messengers
Reflect/process complex information, predict the unknown
Ability to see how everything is connected, draw insight from inner worldview
Consider everyone's messages & roles to create inclusive group settings
TEAM FRUSTRATION:
"Stop staring off into space."
RESPONSE:
"Thinking about the future and its implications for our team is vital to team productivity."
DOMINANT: Si (Introverted sensing)
Excellent at remembering details, compare current experiences and data to past
AUXILIARY: Fe (Extroverted feeling)
Seek harmony in their outer world, long to understand others and put them at ease, great insight into others' emotions
TERTIARY: Ti (Introverted thinking)
Helps them to stay grounded and balanced, back up ideas and concepts with logic
INFERIOR: Ne (Introverted intuition)
Use this function to see alternatives and ask "what if" questions, view things from different perspectives
DOMINANT: Ne (Extroverted intuition)
See possibilities and potential everywhere, thirst for knowledge and exploration
AUXILIARY: Fi (Introverted feeling)
Strong set of inner values and emotions, integrity, compassion, empathy
TERTIARY: Te (Extraverted thinking)
Sense of structure and logic that helps them to organize and plan out their ideas
INFERIOR: Si (Introverted Sensing)
Helps them to not get carried away with their restlessness, allows them to call on past experience
DOMINANT: Ni (Introverted intuition)
Ability to form connections and find patterns that lead to ultimate truth or perception of future
AUXILIARY: Fe (Extroverted feeling)
Seek harmony in their outer world, long to understand others and put them at ease, great insight into others' emotions
TERTIARY: Ti (Introverted thinking)
Helps them to stay grounded and balanced, back up ideas and concepts with logic
INFERIOR: Se (Extroverted sensing)
Not focused on present moment, live in their heads more than sensory world but have intense love of beauty and tranquility
SUMMARY
ENFP
1. Intuition
2. Feeling
3. Thinking
4. Sensing
INFJ
1. Intuition
2. Feeling
3. Thinking
4. Sensing
ISFJ
1. Sensing
2. Feeling
3. Thinking
4. Intuition
Mirror: INFJ
Mirror: ENFP
Mirror: ESFP
1ST LEVEL: Exaggerate dominant function
Rigid, cling to structure, overemphaszie need for precision
Fail to see need for change, only comfortable with what they know
Focus too much on data & overlook the big picture
2ND LEVEL: In the grip of extroverted sensing
Can become pessimistic, irrational, critical, impulsive
THEY MIGHT:
Encourage them to connect with friends, give compliments
– Give them space or time alone to work through their feelings.
– Provide provable affirmations about ways they’ve overcome situations like this in the past.
– Help them break down problems into manageable pieces.
– Don’t give generalized compliments. Make compliments specific.
– Put a problem or task in sequential order.
– Don’t brainstorm. When they are in the grip of extraverted intuition, this will only make things worse.
1ST LEVEL: Exaggerate dominant function
Too optimistic about the possibility of things
Oblivious to time and energy limitations
Ignore sensory data that might be helpful, warn danger
2ND LEVEL: In the grip of introverted sensing
Can be controlling, obsessive, rigid, reckless
THEY MIGHT:
Encourage them to relax with guided visualization
(meditation can be very helpful for ENFPs)
– Give them space and time alone to sort out their feelings.
– Remind them that they are able and competent.
– Don’t give them advice. It won’t help right now.
– Don’t ask for details.
– Listen to them.
– Encourage them to take care of themselves physically (i.e. exercise, get enough sleep, eat well).
– Be warm and kind in the way you speak to them.
– After they’ve calmed down a little, ask them if they want help evaluating the situation.
1ST LEVEL: Exaggerate dominant function
Blind to all but intuition, unrealistic expectations, repress feelings
2ND LEVEL: In the grip of extroverted sensing
Become quiet, withdrawn, shut themselves off from people
Attempt to control environment around them (i.e. cleaning)
Adversarial attitude toward outside world
People usually do not know that an INFJ is stressed unless they pay close attention
THEY MIGHT:
Encourage them to stop thinking
"I should", distract them with humor
– Give them space.
– Reduce sensory stimulation (music, TV, interruptions)
– Let them express their thoughts and feelings.
– Understand that they may be irrational. Don’t judge.
– Don’t give advice. This will only stress them out further.
– Let them take a break from responsibilities.
– Encourage their less serious side, and let them relieve emotional tension by letting them cry through a sappy movie or novel of some sort.
Never say:
#1: "I don't need your help"
Refusing their help can make them feel insulted and frustrated
#2: "Why are you so quiet? Speak up!"
Do not mistake quiet information processing for passivity
#3: "That's not good enough"
ISFJs are perfectionists and can be overwhelmed by too much criticism
#4: "Let's just wing it"
They like to be prepared and know what
too expect
MOTIVATE:
GIVE FEEDBACK:
Never say:
#1 – “Because That’s How It's Been Done"
#2 – “Be More Realistic”
#3 – “Because I Said So”
Authority must be earned with ENFPs, it is never automatically given.
#4 – “Here’s your project. The deadline is tomorrow.”
ENFPs like to take their time to
make sure their projects are
up to their high standards.
Do:
MOTIVATE:
GIVE FEEDBACK:
Never say:
#1: "I've got you figured out"
You don't.
#2: "That will never happen"
Don't discount their intuition and predictions.
#3: "Here's some advice"
INFJs don't appreciate unsolicited advice unless the person has thorough knowledge of the subject.
#4: "Get over it"
INFJs need time to heal and think to move forward.
#5: "You're too serious. Lighten up!"
Due to their unique and profound perceptions of the world, they take life seriously and can have trouble casually "living it up" in the moment.
Do:
MOTIVATE:
GIVE FEEDBACK:
HOW CAN WE USE ALL OF THIS?
Improving relationships
Maximizing human capital at work
Constructing our narratives
Knowing our strengths
Helping others to realize their strengths
Working on our weaknesses
Being aware of our responses to stress
Knowing how to help ourselves & others
http://www.personalityperfect.com/16-personality-types/
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