Has modern dating made relationships better or worse?
OVERVIEW
for - counterclaim 2
It is easy to be find people looking for a relationship too.
-Have apps like Tinder, websites like Match.com, and social media negatively or positively benefited the aspects of a relationship? Negatively.
-Have traditional gestures become nonexistent because of modern dating? Yes.
-apps allow a person to be open towards anyone, allowing more relationships & hopefully a good one
against modern dating: Claim 1
-the one could be a swipe away
Online dating has turned creating a relationship nowadays into a speedy, rushed process by encouraging apps like Tinder.
-if there are no restraints, a person could be with someone as fast as they want (but could be dangerous)
*It is degrading - people are judged ONLY on hand-selected pictures and profiles. -is like "shopping" for people. People can lie and write whatever they want.
*The relationship most likely goes no where.
for - counterclaim 3
Giving effort still exists.
*People aren't treated like real people - people swipe left at the slightest qualities and deal breakers.
-effort exists in online forms.
-taking a picture together.
https://youtu.be/AAcSHTEspQs
Online relationships/apps have nearly erased traditional gestures in a relationship and cause people to under look a person.
-it is all controlled and revolved on phones now.
-is a long-waiting text message, "I love you" or "happy birthday" over text.
-prone to having a bad relationship & short relationship
-person could be dangerous or lying about their identity
-replacing face to face interactions & conversations with a post or written out message.
against - claim 3
People do not try to put in any effort anymore.
-apps make them prone to a bad outcome, so people stop trying on first dates; first impression, trying to actually know someone
SUMMARY
-it is "normal" to stop expecting something good
-people give others LOW expectations because they want a relationship now
The way relationships built today are not the same way they used to be built.
for - counterclaim 1
REAL effort is disappearing - people do not try so hard anymore or take an online relationship seriously.
!!! Apps have the potential and could be effective.
Phones control a huge portion of a relationship.
-could work, but rarely
- SO easy and convenient
-works for people with trouble finding someone the same age
-can hide behind a screen so no face to face interaction; good for people too nervous to start a conversation in person
Modern dating nowadays has negatively changed the way people used to give gestures;it is a text.
-free, fast to make an account, simple
It is becoming more and more acceptable to avoid face to face interactions.