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So we were talking about issues relating to mastering your voice,
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how to use your voice to communicate better and
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to increase your professionalism increase and build your credibility,
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both as a business professional and as a business communicator.
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So we talked about working on pronunciation,
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we talked about working on vocal quality,
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trying to maintain high vocal quality through the length of a sentence and not
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allowing your voice to sort of disintegrate at the end of a sentence,
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we talked about controlling the pitch,
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the rising and falling of your voice so that you build some degree of
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interest in your presentation so that you're not presenting in a dull monotone
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that begins to get very boring for your audience and then
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they don't follow what it is that you're trying to say.
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We also talked about adjusting your volume and adjusting the rate of vocal speed.
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Remember with vocal speed, if you talk too quickly,
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people will miss what you're saying because you're just you're
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just presenting too much information to them too quickly.
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People here at about 125 words a minute, and if you're talking too quickly,
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you're not going to be able to get the entirety of your point across.
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If you talk too slowly, you're going to lose your audience through boredom,
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your audience
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will stop paying attention, their their attention span will end their wander,
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their thoughts will wander and you won't get the entirety of
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your message across because your audience has somehow tuned you out.
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Now you can build some interest,
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some appeal into your vocal presentation when you vary
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your volume and vary the rate of vocal speed.
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You can speed up through certain points not to the point, not to,
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to the extent that your audience misses what you're trying to say, but to the
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point that you're trying to make some contrast at this point,
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maybe isn't as important.
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You're able to talk a little bit more quickly and then you talk really
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with a little bit of degree of of slowness of attention to detail,
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where you want to get an important point across
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same thing with volume,
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you can
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lower your volume if you really want to capture your audience's attention,
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make them listen to you.
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Or if you really want to get a point across, if you want to uh you know,
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really grab their attention, maybe you talk a little bit loudly,
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You want to use variations in volume and rate of vocal speed
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and you want to make sure that you have mastered
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emphasis in your pronunciation, emphasis in the way that you speak.
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You want to make sure that your
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receivers understand what you believe to be important
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and you want to make sure that you have eliminated
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as much as possible verbal tics like ums and likes and
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any type of verbal repeated verbal behavior that might break
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down your audience's attention and that might antagonize your audience.
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Remember there is a correlation between voice and authority and if you
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can make workplace conversation a positive element of your professional persona,
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then you have advanced your personal position and you have advanced
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your credibility and you have advanced your image for professionalism,
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You want to listen, you want to remember,
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we're back to that important point of listening when
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you are engaged in face to face communication,
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which is what we are really focused on in this particular part of Chapter 11.
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When you're engaged in face to face communication,
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listening is important, listening is essential. You want to be sincere.
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You want to have sincerity in your attitude
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and sincerity in the way that you communicate
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sincerity in the words that you use in the way that you use those words.
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You want to avoid negativity speakers.
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I'm sorry receivers are going to be turned off by excessive negativity.
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Now that doesn't mean that you can't deliver a negative message.
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Sometimes you have to and sometimes you have to draw a contrast,
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but you can draw that contrast without
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being excessively negative without being personally negative.
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You want to avoid negativity because
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negativity antagonizes and alienate your audience
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and you want to be professional in social situations,
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You want to be able to effectively
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communicate and effectively evidence your professionalism,
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your credibility by how you behave in social situations.
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Social situations are an important part of business communication, how you behave
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at a meal that you might share with a client or a meal
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that you might share with your managers or with your other supervisors,
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you need to be able to be
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as professional as possible, be as controlled in your behavior as possible.
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This is another time when you want to be able to act with a certain degree of
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etiquette and you want to behave with a certain degree of manners and
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if you are unsure of what might be the appropriate business etiquette,
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in a situation there are plenty of resources both in books and online that would
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help you determine what is the appropriate way
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to behave in a certain social situation,
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mastering business etiquette,
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mastering being professional even in social situations,
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even when you might otherwise not be thinking that you're going to be judged.
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One of the reasons why many businesses include a meal as part of a,
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as part of a hiring interview is because the
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employers want to see how you handle yourself in a social situation.
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Well, that's the same thing.
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It's the same concept here in, in these types of face to face communications,
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how you behave
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in a social situation with a prospective client or with a current client,
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with a current customer.
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All of that is going to have an important impact on your professionalism,
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how you are viewed as a professional and how effective you will be as a communicator,
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how credible you will be as a communicator.
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Now, as we've talked about these techniques to improve your voice,
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these are really just trying to help you develop good
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work habits and that's the third part of this,
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it's the third element in this part of our discussion.
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We want to talk about how you can develop good work habits
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and one of the first things that you need to do
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is to learn how to deliver and accept criticism graciously,
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how to build connectivity through this process of
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delivering and accepting criticism.
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We need to be able to learn from criticism,
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we need to be able to take in criticism that that we might receive and
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figure out if we agree with it, if we disagree with it,
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if we disagree with it then we should disagree respectfully and graciously
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so that we do not antagonize the person who delivered the criticism.
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We should learn how to take that criticism and then build upon it, learn from it, what
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can we find in that criticism that speaks truth to us and
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then we can learn to make ourselves better because of that criticism.
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It's happened to me,
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I'm sure that any of you who's had a review by a supervisor on a job
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that you might have had anybody who's received
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criticism from a supervisor from a manager.
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If you listen with careful attention to the criticism and if you
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are able to distill that criticism down to its essential core,
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you probably will learn something from that criticism
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and you'll be able to be better,
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more effective and uh
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you'll be able to behave in a manner that avoids future criticism.
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Use this criticism,
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this opportunity of delivering and accepting criticism to build connectivity.
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When you are delivering criticism, you must be gracious, you must be
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aware of the feelings of the person to whom you
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are delivering the criticism and you should try to use that
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opportunity to build a connection so that the person can learn
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from the criticism and can be better from the criticism.
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An important part of developing good work habits
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is learning how to use the telephone,
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telephone and and voice mail are essential parts of business communication and we
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need to learn how to develop appropriate
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telephone skills and appropriate voicemail skills.
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When you are making a telephone call,
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you need to make that call in a professional manner.
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So you need to have a plan.
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First of all, you need to have a plan,
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you need to know what it is that you want to accomplish in that call,
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particularly if this is a fairly important business call that you're about to have,
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you need to prepare an agenda,
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you need to make sure that you have in an introduction that introduces yourself,
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especially if you are making this as something of a cold call.
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If you're not calling someone um with whom you deal regularly,
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you need to be able to have an appropriate way to end the call.
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Always you want to be professional and courteous in the telephone call.
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When you are receiving calls,
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you also have to remember that these are business
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calls and you have to receive these calls professionally.
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One of the most important things for you to remember
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when you are receiving business calls is to preserve confidentiality.
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Don't
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share confidential information that you receive in a telephone call. If you are
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trying to need to contact the person again,
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make sure that you have written down all relevant contact information,
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make sure that you take notes during the call.
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Especially if there is going to be some necessary follow up.
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You need to know what it is and be confident and capable in
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doing whatever it is that you need to be able to do.
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When you pick up a business phone call, always identify yourself.
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I
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don't like when I call someone on a business call and they just pick up and say hello.
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I don't know if I've reached the right person.
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I mean if it's if it's a client that I talked to
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three or four times a day and I know their voice and I know their number,
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that's one thing.
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But if if
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someone is calling you and they might not know who you are,
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they might not be completely familiar with who you are.
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Make sure you identify yourself because they don't
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know that they've called the right number.
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They don't know if there's any if for some reason they've reached the
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wrong person always just pick up your phone and politely give your name.
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You may not want to do that with your friends, but in business communication,
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in business telephone calls.
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That's really important.
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And if you have to know how to use,
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if you need to know how to transfer calls or or send calls to voicemail,
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you need to learn the technology of your phone system.
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Always make sure that when you are working in an office with
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a telephone system that you know how to use the technology,
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we have a new phone system in my office and I'm still learning the technology.
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I'm still learning how to transfer calls,
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but I need to know that even though I'm a senior partner,
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I may need to transfer a call to one of my other partners or one of my associates.
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So it's important always to know how to use the telephone technology that you have.
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That's an important part of developing proper telephone skills.