UNIT 8 Lesson 1 part B
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Mhm. What?
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Uh huh.
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Okay. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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Mhm. Yeah.
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Thank you.
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Mm. Yeah.
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Mm hmm.
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Mhm. Yeah.
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Okay. Sure.
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Okay, So when declining in S L.
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You cannot just say no.
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Yeah. I mean, you can, but, um, But in reality,
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if you just say no, they're going to say, Why
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not? Um, you have to have a reason.
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You have to have a legit reason why, and it
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can't be.
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I don't want to do it, or I don't have
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time to do it.
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Why don't you have time?
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Why don't you want to do it?
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They're going to ask those questions because that's part of
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deaf culture in the hearing world.
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We look at those questions as prying into personal life,
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and we just don't ask them, like Okay, fine.
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You don't wanna do it.
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Okay, But in deaf world, that's not how it works.
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They expect to have a legit reason of some sort
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as to why you won't do something.
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Um, whether it's you don't know how to do it,
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whether it's you physically can't do it because you don't
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have the means to um or whatever it There has
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to be a reason.
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And that you have to state that reason.
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So you can't just say no.
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I don't want to, Which is what we could say
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in in hearing world.
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But honestly, depending on the situation, if you said no,
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I don't want to.
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In the hearing world, you would be considered rude.
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Um, and anyway, and the person is going to be
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fine. Well, and and they'll just know that they won't
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ask you next time.
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Um, we do that quite frequently.
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Um, so, yeah, so it's You have to have a
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legit reason.
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I mean, um, So what I want you to do
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now is attached to this assignment or this Meet this
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material is, um, the videos that I attached last time
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to that made the request.
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What I want you to do is I want you
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to practice declining those requests, okay?
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And remember to give the reason.
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Okay. Maybe you don't know how to do it.
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Say, I don't know how I'm just like you.
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I don't know how to do this.
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Uh, maybe you can't, because you you know, if it
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involves a vehicle, you don't have the vehicle.
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Your your sibling may have taken it.
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Your parents would have taken it.
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You don't have it with you.
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A friend took your car someplace.
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Um, uh, if it's something else and you don't have
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the materials to do it, you don't have the means.
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So you're going to have to state I don't have
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whatever it is that is needed to do whatever is
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being asked.
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Um, so give that a shot and then move on
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to 8.2, which will be posted in a little bit
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as well.