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Hi, my name is Kristen right? And this is my relationships essay.

So I did my essays on my best friend Caroline,

my other best friend and former boyfriend Huston,

my other best friend, Kayleigh

and my father God

my savior, jesus christ,

my sister leah,

my mom georgiana

and here's

that's the rest of the table continents.

So my best friend Caroline.

So we discovered each other on these social videos,

Twitter and Instagram and then we met in real life at FY in 2015.

So we stayed connected through social media and we texted a lot.

I moved into her award in 2017 and we've been hanging out weekly

ever since and that's how we've maintained our friendship.

So what this

relationship means to me and she's very loyal.

Our relationship is very therapeutic and spiritual

and I've discovered that I am a christ like example and Caroline

told me one time she looks up to me for guidance.

So the positive communication Caroline and I have is that

we're both vulnerable with each other and expressing our feelings,

some negative ones or that she tends to be indecisive

when we hang out or

what we want to do or where are we going to eat at.

So we definitely communicate through our guts, which are jargon and slang,

some examples, we see lit or boogie a lot in our vocabulary.

So my

best friend slash former boyfriend Heston.

We met in 2017 at youth conference,

we went to see some history sites in Palmyra New York in Kirtland Ohio.

So we've maintained this relationship through texting,

We hung out at all the youth dances and

activities and we hung out at each other's houses.

Then we eventually started dating and became boyfriend and girlfriend.

So,

um,

a lot of qualities I see in him are like

what I would eventually look for in a future eternal companion

and I've discovered what I'd be like as a future wife and

I discovered I would want someone like him who's very christ like,

so some positive communication that hasn't only have

or were really good about like planning hangouts

and dates and we really got to know each other and we supported each other.

We're very private about how we showed affection to.

So I thought that was pretty good.

Um, a couple of negative communication.

Um, there was like this big misunderstanding a few years ago,

it gave me a gift that he then he told me

a few years later that he meant it for someone else,

but in the end he wanted to actually give it to me.

So that's what we discovered through talking it out.

So the

um, term from our online textbook

that I have with him, a smell memory.

So especially with what I smell like cologne different men,

like people who come into work and it'll

remind me of him

and take me back to when we were dating.

So my best friend Kayleigh,

So Hailey and I met one time she came to

church with my other best friend Carolina in 2017.

So we've stayed connected through social media and we hang out weekly with Caroline

and

so what this friendship means to me and we're both really silly,

were supportive of each other and we give

each other a really great dating relationship advice.

So from my relationship with Kaylee is

that I've discovered that I'm the therapist friend

and then I can also connect with people of my beliefs and people of other beliefs.

So,

a positive communication with Kaylee is that we're

both really in touch with our emotions and talents

and we help each other with

pois situations with dating.

So some negative communication.

Um she

actually,

she suggested that I completely cut Heston off after we broke up

and I disagreed because Heston and I someone would be friends.

So,

um, Kalish, the concept that comes to mind is perception

about being mindful of the material we receive and evaluate and especially

when it comes to helping each other with our mental health.

So the next relationship with my heavenly father, which is God.

So of course this relationship began with the pre existence

when he created Heaven Earth and all of us.

So

the way is that I say

and communication with my father and we maintain this relationship

is through prayer scripture study is going to church,

going to

why say events and then these events when I was a teenager

going to institute and fulfilling my callings.

I chose heavenly father, especially in his hand in my life and his timing

is so perfect with different people and experiences in my life.

So I discovered that I'm a child and the daughter of God with the purpose,

I'm a daughter of a king, therefore I'm a queen.

So the positive communication with God is

through the promptings of the holy spirit,

wanted me of danger and inspiring me to do good things.

Um, maybe some negative communications are like

when my parents aren't answered as quickly as I want them

to be or if I'm going through a really hard time,

I might feel alone.

Mhm

So with my relationship with God come,

what comes to mind as selective perception for example,

um when I'm at church or an institute,

when there's talk about like connecting to God or obeying his commandments,

I really pay attention to that and it's really important to me.

So my relationship with my Savior, jesus christ,

of course it also began in the pre existence,

We need volunteers to be the Savior of the world for me for all of us.

And then my relationship with the Savior has maintained every week at church,

went to take the sacrament and remember him

and this is the reason I'm here on earth and have a purpose in life,

if it weren't for jesus christ

with their life Academy, loneliness

and I am an example through jesus christ and my love,

especially in the relationships I have here on earth

positive communication with jesus christ just

through reading his teachings from the scriptures

and also an institute,

maybe some negative communication.

Um I'm noticing like in the last year I've been really struggling to

do my own personal scripture study and prayer and it needs improving,

so I'm currently trying to work on that personally.

Um what comes to mind when,

when it comes to jesus christ is the images

of the desired self which includes the concept,

self idealized, self assured self, the public and real self

and

basically I've been told by friends and family that I'm very

christ like and I have a lot of cars like attributes

like

um love for your fellow men and

serving others things like that.

So my relationship with my sister leah,

So the sister had began in 2003 when she was born,

So I've been her older sister all her life for 18 years

and we've gone from like as little kids, we would play with toys, go outside and play

and as like teenagers and young adults now where we go to friends, parties,

dances with church activities, things like that.

So my sister had with leah is a big part of my life and I know I'm

an example to her and I'm very protective of

her as well since she's my younger sister,

so she and I are polar opposites and some things,

but other times it's like we're twins

that includes like the way we communicate in our interests,

an urn

friend groups,

some positive communication that she and I have,

that we definitely help balance each other out in our personalities.

Like for example, I have a very sweet personality, she can be very salty sometimes,

so that's an interesting combination.

Um some negative communication with my sister is like when

she tends to be the mom friend and she kind of moms me and she

acts like

she's a parent but she's younger than me. So it's interesting.

Um the concept that I see with leah my relationship with her is pleasure seeking.

So I noticed that I try to be a leader an example

by putting myself out there

in a certain position, whether it's like an institute,

I try to share my insights and I know that she does as well, so

that's something cool I've noticed.

So my relationship with my mom georgiana,

So this mother daughter relationship began in 1999 when I was born.

So I've been in her daughter all my life for 22 years and my

mom has always been there to talk to me throughout my whole life.

So our motherhood daughter hood is very special to me

because she has been example to me all my life,

I realized that the woman I am today has influenced a lot from my mom

and she and I both have a tough skin through different

tough things we've been through in our youth

um positive communication,

my moment I have or that we are very comfortable

sharing of struggles and also our hobbies with each other

negative communication,

it's mostly on me, but it's if I'm going through something,

I kind of bottle all in and then my mom noticed that something is obviously

wrong and she asked and then I just blurt it all out and tell her,

so maybe like the with holder

and the communication is the show with

on the concept that I see

here with my mom is like culture and ethnocentric

and I noticed that like my mom and I both love pop culture, which is like,

you know the music and the trends from like our teen era.

So like my mom, she was a teenager and young adult through the eighties,

so she loves a lot of like eighties music, eighties movies, eighties pop,

And so I was a teenager through the 2010s,

so I love pop music and pop culture from that period.

So the conclusion of my seven relationships,

each one of these relationships are very special to me

and I'm blessed to have a loyal best friend

like Caroline who I consider his sister in Zion

and Heston, he's treating me like a queen

and I know that's how I would like my future husband to shape me,

My relationship with kelly has taught me the

importance of mental health and talking about things

and being the daughter of God has given me purpose

and hope that I am part of a bigger plan

and I know that my relationship with jesus christ as my

savior has saved me and I strive to be like him.

My sister had with leah has helped me become a better

woman because I want to be an example to her.

My mother has guided me all my life and I

want to be wise like her from life experiences,

relationships have not been easy.

There have been ups and downs in our roller coasters of emotion

and that is my conclusion to my

relationships, I say.

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