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Sexual Harrassment
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Hasan Zainnuri, M.Pd.
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Yeah. Hello, everyone.
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Thanks for being part off this bitch.
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So before we go to the topic, let me give
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some equation to all of you.
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And I hope all of you can participate on the
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state. A session s o.
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Do you familiar with sex harassment?
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Or maybe some of you has experience on it.
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Okay, maybe it is something bad hotel in a public,
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right? It happened on most off people who make a
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stigma that sexual harassment is something weird to show in
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a public.
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But what will happen next if everyone never show their
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experience to another?
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How about another people that has the same apart in
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ITI to be affecting off sexual hirsman?
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Can you imagine how much people in this world who
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ever experience on these cases so in here?
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I just want to show you how important sex education
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is and to take care off yourself, whether it is
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your friends or even best friend, because anyone can be
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a suspect off sexual harassment.
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Okay, without any further do so, I will go to
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the first topic.
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No. Okay.
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Who can be the suspect?
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So today I would like to discuss with all of
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you about sexual harassment on and how can and who
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can be the suspect in this case, I just this
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topic because I guess there's still a lot of people
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still afraid to spill about sexual harassment.
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And some of them even still don't understand.
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I understand.
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Don't understand anything.
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About what kind on that.
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What are the categorize off sexual harassment?
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Okay, we're going to the next, uh, okay.
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It can hurt physically and mentally.
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Who can feel hurt?
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Hoe can hurt physically and mentally off course.
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Affect them.
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So, actually, I've been reading this topic in some sources,
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watching a lot off YouTube.
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And also, I often read in Cora There's so much
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stories off other people and their experience in sexual Hersman
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and also author, read some case.
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I feel like I have to show I have to
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show tow all of people that it is okay if
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you spill your case toe another because it will help
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you to fix your problems.
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Because, um, it's not only for you, it's for for
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another people, because it will have a good impact to
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other people at the suspect.
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Have to give punishment the best punishment because of what
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they do when the victim just keep the case by
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themselves. It will be very Jangers, I think because, um,
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it can hurt.
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They're physically and mentally, so I hope all of you
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can really take care of yourself.
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Um, it is okay to spill your case in a
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public or tell anyone that you that you feel so
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credible. So maybe your parents it is okay to tell
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with the biggest.
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It is very dangerous when you just keep it for
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yourself and you're thinking a lot about it.
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So just try to spill it to another people that
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you are feels comfort with them.
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Okay, we're going through the next slide.
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Okay, This one, the suspect can be your friend or
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even best friend.
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Eso I'm gonna tell you that.
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Take care of yourself.
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Because sex harassment can be happened on everyone at the
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suspect can be someone who close to you.
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Just don't be afraid to spill sex with her sexual
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harassment to a public.
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You know that, uh, in teenagers, many of them I'm
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telling a lot with their best friend because they feel
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so where's that belief?
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They believed with their friends?
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Without thinking about another words that another aspect.
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Another negative impact for them for that.
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So trust me, you have to consider You have to
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take care off yourself.
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Even if it is just it is your best friends.
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Okay? And today I would like Thio deliver to mean
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point in here the first.
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Okay, I'll go to the next line thief.
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First one is about the meaning off sexual harassment.
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The literally meaning off the sexual harassment at the second
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one is the way to protect ourselves or another people
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that around us Thio protect ourselves and around people Thio
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sexual harassment.
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Okay, so we're going to the first one point, okay?
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The meaning off Sexual harassment.
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Eso maybe some of you still carry out about what?
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Actually, sexual harassment is so sexual harassment.
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It's unwelcome sexual behavior that's offensive, humiliating and intimidating.
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It can be written for verbal, physical and can happen
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in person or online online, online on our offline.
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I mean, both men and women can be the victims
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off a sexual harassment.
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Okay, then I would like Thio explain it one by
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one about, uh, what kind off?
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What are categorized of sexual harassment.
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The first one is verbal harassment.
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What is the verbal harassment?
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So I'll give you some example about verbal harassment on.
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Okay, The first one is making sexual comments about a
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person's body person's clothing, Anna told me, or looks.
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It is no Onley based on off line way, but
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also in online May.
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The second one is turning work discussion to sexual topics
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and the next one telling sex.
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Well, choose our stories about somewhat, someone's body asked, and
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the next one is asking about sexual fantasized references or
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history on also asking personal equation about social or sexual
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life. And the next one is making kissing sounds.
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Hauling or making lips are the last one is telling
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lies or spreading rumors about persons about person's personal sex
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life. Okay, after we know what are the example of
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for Buhari Zeman?
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We moved to Theis one non verbal harassment, so I'll
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give some example like looking at person up and down,
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like like this.
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You know, like someone.
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Sometimes there's someone who, looking at you like that.
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It is a categorized off, non verbal harassment, so be
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careful about it, and the second one is blocking a
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person path.
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The third one is displaying sexual suggestive festivals are making
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sexual gesture with heads or two body movements.
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Ah, nde.
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The next one is making facial expressions such as winking
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throwing cases are licking lips.
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Okay, then the last thing, at least is physical harassment.
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It is the most the most happening on these people,
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especially in Indonesia, because I've ever heard.
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No, I've heard a lot of stories in core about
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it. So, for example, given a message around the neck
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or shoulders, it is very dangerous because and it's categorized
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off physically.
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Harassment and X there is what is that?
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Touching the person clothing, hair or body without any permission
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off you and then hacking, kissing, patting or stroking It
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is for every dangerous, I guess.
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And then there there are also touching or rubbing oneself
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sexual around another person.
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Yeah, it is.
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I guess it is very dangerous to on the last
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one is standing close or brushing up against another person?
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Okay, so after we knew about some off categorized off
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sexual harassment No, we moved Thio.
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The main point to it is about the way too
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broad, like ourselves from sexual harassment.
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Maybe, um, there's still a lot of people that they
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don't know about how to protect yourself.
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So in here I'll give, um, some some activity that
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can they do to protect ourselves, uh, in the world
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is that in the case off sexual harassment, the first
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one to protect yourself is by inform about the definition
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off sexual harassment.
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So it is a little a little blurry, a basic,
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a basic knowledge that you have to know about it
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to protect yourself.
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The second waas The second one is about the knowledgeable
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about institutional polish regarding sexual harassment, because it will help
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you when you need him.
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And the next one is take an active role in
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fostering of work in for environment free from sexual harassment.
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We have to know about it.
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And then we also can, at times sexual harassment prevention
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courses or training like that, and consult with your human
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sources off fish and government agency in necessary if necessary.
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I mean, uh, never be afraid to report a common
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action or Chester by somebody that makes you feel uncomfortable.
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It is okay, so you don't have to feel sorry
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about it because it is your responsibility to protect yourself.
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If possible.
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Speak with individual terribly and inform him or her or
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someone that you feel that behavior is inappropriate at the
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last 16 support from family members Friends colleges are your
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state's nurses association.
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It is very, very important thing.
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And then the best one, I have the last one.
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What is that?
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You have to drug human when you found a sex
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herdsmen and you have thio give it to palace and
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then, um so the suspect can have a punishment off.
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What did you So I also I'm going to give
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some example off public feature that has a brief way
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to spill their case.
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So I want to tell my own story.
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So I personally personally have a have experience about it.
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So when I'm in high school, my French doing sexual
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Hersman by judging and marking, uh my buddy and make
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it at us as a joke, Actually, it's hurt me,
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but when it happened, I still don't understand that it's
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mean the sexual harassment.
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But after I learned a lot about sexual Hersman, I
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realized that there's still a lot of people that have
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the same case with me.
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OK, so I'll give the the first example from.
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So I got some example from dot com.
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So one off them is.
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So she told me.
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Um, she told me I'm sorry, because actually, they don't
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know me, Of course.
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So she thought in their own ist instagram that she
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got a sexual harassment by footballer in Indonesia.
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She said that the case is happened through nonverbal way
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in tm off instagram.
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This is what I told that sexual harassment can be
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a known in online way.
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Okay, then the next one is there, Hannah.
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Shit. It is very familiar public feature.
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I like it because she she always show about the
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thank the woman responsibility.
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Okay, so was once Harris on the streets off Jakarta.
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It is happened in most people, I guess not only
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for Billy in the form off pornographic words, but also
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in physically.
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Hannah admitted that the foot motorcycles grabbed her vital body
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and run away a moment.
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Leather. According to her, the most extreme experience off sexual
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harassment is when a man takes out his genitals and
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mustard masturbated.
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I'm sorry to tell you this in front of him
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in front of her.
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I mean, the accident happened to her twice.
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Oh, my God.
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It will feel so sorry about it.
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Okay, So before I am the speech, I would like
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to give some quotes.
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One quote to you.
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So I know becoming a good person is not that
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got a busy so started with yourself.
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Love yourself.
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And don't let anyone hurt you, no matter what it
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is. Okay.
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Thank you.
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Thank you.
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And see you.
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Have a good day, everyone.
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