Sexual Harrassment

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by Hasan Zainnuri, M.Pd.5 views·Updated Jan 10, 2021

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  1. Yeah. Hello, everyone.
  2. Thanks for being part off this bitch.
  3. So before we go to the topic, let me give
  4. some equation to all of you.
  5. And I hope all of you can participate on the
  6. state. A session s o.
  7. Do you familiar with sex harassment?
  8. Or maybe some of you has experience on it.
  9. Okay, maybe it is something bad hotel in a public,
  10. right? It happened on most off people who make a
  11. stigma that sexual harassment is something weird to show in
  12. a public.
  13. But what will happen next if everyone never show their
  14. experience to another?
  15. How about another people that has the same apart in
  16. ITI to be affecting off sexual hirsman?
  17. Can you imagine how much people in this world who
  18. ever experience on these cases so in here?
  19. I just want to show you how important sex education
  20. is and to take care off yourself, whether it is
  21. your friends or even best friend, because anyone can be
  22. a suspect off sexual harassment.
  23. Okay, without any further do so, I will go to
  24. the first topic.
  25. No. Okay.
  26. Who can be the suspect?
  27. So today I would like to discuss with all of
  28. you about sexual harassment on and how can and who
  29. can be the suspect in this case, I just this
  30. topic because I guess there's still a lot of people
  31. still afraid to spill about sexual harassment.
  32. And some of them even still don't understand.
  33. I understand.
  34. Don't understand anything.
  35. About what kind on that.
  36. What are the categorize off sexual harassment?
  37. Okay, we're going to the next, uh, okay.
  38. It can hurt physically and mentally.
  39. Who can feel hurt?
  40. Hoe can hurt physically and mentally off course.
  41. Affect them.
  42. So, actually, I've been reading this topic in some sources,
  43. watching a lot off YouTube.
  44. And also, I often read in Cora There's so much
  45. stories off other people and their experience in sexual Hersman
  46. and also author, read some case.
  47. I feel like I have to show I have to
  48. show tow all of people that it is okay if
  49. you spill your case toe another because it will help
  50. you to fix your problems.
  51. Because, um, it's not only for you, it's for for
  52. another people, because it will have a good impact to
  53. other people at the suspect.
  54. Have to give punishment the best punishment because of what
  55. they do when the victim just keep the case by
  56. themselves. It will be very Jangers, I think because, um,
  57. it can hurt.
  58. They're physically and mentally, so I hope all of you
  59. can really take care of yourself.
  60. Um, it is okay to spill your case in a
  61. public or tell anyone that you that you feel so
  62. credible. So maybe your parents it is okay to tell
  63. with the biggest.
  64. It is very dangerous when you just keep it for
  65. yourself and you're thinking a lot about it.
  66. So just try to spill it to another people that
  67. you are feels comfort with them.
  68. Okay, we're going through the next slide.
  69. Okay, This one, the suspect can be your friend or
  70. even best friend.
  71. Eso I'm gonna tell you that.
  72. Take care of yourself.
  73. Because sex harassment can be happened on everyone at the
  74. suspect can be someone who close to you.
  75. Just don't be afraid to spill sex with her sexual
  76. harassment to a public.
  77. You know that, uh, in teenagers, many of them I'm
  78. telling a lot with their best friend because they feel
  79. so where's that belief?
  80. They believed with their friends?
  81. Without thinking about another words that another aspect.
  82. Another negative impact for them for that.
  83. So trust me, you have to consider You have to
  84. take care off yourself.
  85. Even if it is just it is your best friends.
  86. Okay? And today I would like Thio deliver to mean
  87. point in here the first.
  88. Okay, I'll go to the next line thief.
  89. First one is about the meaning off sexual harassment.
  90. The literally meaning off the sexual harassment at the second
  91. one is the way to protect ourselves or another people
  92. that around us Thio protect ourselves and around people Thio
  93. sexual harassment.
  94. Okay, so we're going to the first one point, okay?
  95. The meaning off Sexual harassment.
  96. Eso maybe some of you still carry out about what?
  97. Actually, sexual harassment is so sexual harassment.
  98. It's unwelcome sexual behavior that's offensive, humiliating and intimidating.
  99. It can be written for verbal, physical and can happen
  100. in person or online online, online on our offline.
  101. I mean, both men and women can be the victims
  102. off a sexual harassment.
  103. Okay, then I would like Thio explain it one by
  104. one about, uh, what kind off?
  105. What are categorized of sexual harassment.
  106. The first one is verbal harassment.
  107. What is the verbal harassment?
  108. So I'll give you some example about verbal harassment on.
  109. Okay, The first one is making sexual comments about a
  110. person's body person's clothing, Anna told me, or looks.
  111. It is no Onley based on off line way, but
  112. also in online May.
  113. The second one is turning work discussion to sexual topics
  114. and the next one telling sex.
  115. Well, choose our stories about somewhat, someone's body asked, and
  116. the next one is asking about sexual fantasized references or
  117. history on also asking personal equation about social or sexual
  118. life. And the next one is making kissing sounds.
  119. Hauling or making lips are the last one is telling
  120. lies or spreading rumors about persons about person's personal sex
  121. life. Okay, after we know what are the example of
  122. for Buhari Zeman?
  123. We moved to Theis one non verbal harassment, so I'll
  124. give some example like looking at person up and down,
  125. like like this.
  126. You know, like someone.
  127. Sometimes there's someone who, looking at you like that.
  128. It is a categorized off, non verbal harassment, so be
  129. careful about it, and the second one is blocking a
  130. person path.
  131. The third one is displaying sexual suggestive festivals are making
  132. sexual gesture with heads or two body movements.
  133. Ah, nde.
  134. The next one is making facial expressions such as winking
  135. throwing cases are licking lips.
  136. Okay, then the last thing, at least is physical harassment.
  137. It is the most the most happening on these people,
  138. especially in Indonesia, because I've ever heard.
  139. No, I've heard a lot of stories in core about
  140. it. So, for example, given a message around the neck
  141. or shoulders, it is very dangerous because and it's categorized
  142. off physically.
  143. Harassment and X there is what is that?
  144. Touching the person clothing, hair or body without any permission
  145. off you and then hacking, kissing, patting or stroking It
  146. is for every dangerous, I guess.
  147. And then there there are also touching or rubbing oneself
  148. sexual around another person.
  149. Yeah, it is.
  150. I guess it is very dangerous to on the last
  151. one is standing close or brushing up against another person?
  152. Okay, so after we knew about some off categorized off
  153. sexual harassment No, we moved Thio.
  154. The main point to it is about the way too
  155. broad, like ourselves from sexual harassment.
  156. Maybe, um, there's still a lot of people that they
  157. don't know about how to protect yourself.
  158. So in here I'll give, um, some some activity that
  159. can they do to protect ourselves, uh, in the world
  160. is that in the case off sexual harassment, the first
  161. one to protect yourself is by inform about the definition
  162. off sexual harassment.
  163. So it is a little a little blurry, a basic,
  164. a basic knowledge that you have to know about it
  165. to protect yourself.
  166. The second waas The second one is about the knowledgeable
  167. about institutional polish regarding sexual harassment, because it will help
  168. you when you need him.
  169. And the next one is take an active role in
  170. fostering of work in for environment free from sexual harassment.
  171. We have to know about it.
  172. And then we also can, at times sexual harassment prevention
  173. courses or training like that, and consult with your human
  174. sources off fish and government agency in necessary if necessary.
  175. I mean, uh, never be afraid to report a common
  176. action or Chester by somebody that makes you feel uncomfortable.
  177. It is okay, so you don't have to feel sorry
  178. about it because it is your responsibility to protect yourself.
  179. If possible.
  180. Speak with individual terribly and inform him or her or
  181. someone that you feel that behavior is inappropriate at the
  182. last 16 support from family members Friends colleges are your
  183. state's nurses association.
  184. It is very, very important thing.
  185. And then the best one, I have the last one.
  186. What is that?
  187. You have to drug human when you found a sex
  188. herdsmen and you have thio give it to palace and
  189. then, um so the suspect can have a punishment off.
  190. What did you So I also I'm going to give
  191. some example off public feature that has a brief way
  192. to spill their case.
  193. So I want to tell my own story.
  194. So I personally personally have a have experience about it.
  195. So when I'm in high school, my French doing sexual
  196. Hersman by judging and marking, uh my buddy and make
  197. it at us as a joke, Actually, it's hurt me,
  198. but when it happened, I still don't understand that it's
  199. mean the sexual harassment.
  200. But after I learned a lot about sexual Hersman, I
  201. realized that there's still a lot of people that have
  202. the same case with me.
  203. OK, so I'll give the the first example from.
  204. So I got some example from dot com.
  205. So one off them is.
  206. So she told me.
  207. Um, she told me I'm sorry, because actually, they don't
  208. know me, Of course.
  209. So she thought in their own ist instagram that she
  210. got a sexual harassment by footballer in Indonesia.
  211. She said that the case is happened through nonverbal way
  212. in tm off instagram.
  213. This is what I told that sexual harassment can be
  214. a known in online way.
  215. Okay, then the next one is there, Hannah.
  216. Shit. It is very familiar public feature.
  217. I like it because she she always show about the
  218. thank the woman responsibility.
  219. Okay, so was once Harris on the streets off Jakarta.
  220. It is happened in most people, I guess not only
  221. for Billy in the form off pornographic words, but also
  222. in physically.
  223. Hannah admitted that the foot motorcycles grabbed her vital body
  224. and run away a moment.
  225. Leather. According to her, the most extreme experience off sexual
  226. harassment is when a man takes out his genitals and
  227. mustard masturbated.
  228. I'm sorry to tell you this in front of him
  229. in front of her.
  230. I mean, the accident happened to her twice.
  231. Oh, my God.
  232. It will feel so sorry about it.
  233. Okay, So before I am the speech, I would like
  234. to give some quotes.
  235. One quote to you.
  236. So I know becoming a good person is not that
  237. got a busy so started with yourself.
  238. Love yourself.
  239. And don't let anyone hurt you, no matter what it
  240. is. Okay.
  241. Thank you.
  242. Thank you.
  243. And see you.
  244. Have a good day, everyone.