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How to handle Criticism- 2MM
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Nathan Czubaj
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Updated Dec 1, 2021
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Chapter 1
This is a new way to look at criticism.
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This one is on how to handle criticism.
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I did a video a while back and it has the most views of all my videos.
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It was about people that talked too much
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and that topic must have really resonated with people because people watched it
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interestingly. They also commented on it
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and the vast majority of people were either negative or extremely mean.
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It was shocking.
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Not one person paid for the advice
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and yet they criticize me as though I did them a disservice.
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Like I was personally offending them.
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If you see the video, you'll see how benign and even consider it. The advice was
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these people didn't say, you know,
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I tried that and it didn't work for me or have you tried this approach?
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So I bit my tongue
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and it took a different viewpoint.
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The fact that so many people complain means that people watched it,
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I must be doing something right.
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It's 10 times more common to get negative feedback than positive feedback,
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especially online.
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So that means there are probably a lot of people that actually learn something.
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So I held back my replies and I just smiled.
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It's working.
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I'm getting people to think
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if you want to be successful, you have to expect criticism,
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persuasion,
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getting people to think differently is the key to success
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and any time you try to introduce a new idea,
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people are gonna push back
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if you want to be comfortable, that's fine.
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If you don't like criticism, that's okay,
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just don't expect to get very far in this world.
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So the next time someone criticizes you quietly,
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thank them for the acknowledgement
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that you're slowly changing the world.
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Hey, thanks for watching.
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Let me know if you have any other topics you'd like to see on two minute mindsets.
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