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The Healing of Rejection

This presentation shows the wound of rejection is shame but doesn't stop there. This teaching goes on to show where our real acceptance comes from.
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Stephan Neese

on 7 April 2016

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Transcript of The Healing of Rejection

The Healing of Rejection
Effects of Shame
Shame Fear Control
ACCEPTANCE
Work of the Cross
AND Then...
Understanding Its Beginning, Effects, and The Power of ACCEPTANCE
But God Was NOT Done...
Satan TICKED,
Brings DECEPTION
into the World in
an Effort to
Steal God's Glory
Shame was Born
He Brought Forth LIFE!
God Came Down and Visited
Adam and Eve Daily Here on Earth
God Brought LIGHT and Order
Into Satan's Playground
The Beginning
I AM!
Cast Out of Heaven Into the DARKNESS!

LACKING
LACKING-
FALLING SHORT OF
GOD'S
STANDARD
LACKING ABILITY
TO CHANGE
THE SITUATION
LACKING
LIFE
THE DECEPTION
TO
BROUGHT
DEATH
THE
EARTH
DEATH=
Did God Really say...?
Genesis 3:1
God is
withholding
from you.
Created doubt in God's care and plan

Surely there is something wrong with you and that's why He withheld from you- "For God knows..."
You are flawed and that's why God doesn't want you to have it.

THE DECEPTION PLOT
Genesis 4:5
Genesis 3:4
End RESULT:
Adam and Eve Rejected
God's Way
Out of That REJECTION-
What is Shame?
Shame is an internal evaluation that
there is something wrong with
you and that you are uniquely flawed.
It's The
Wound of REJECTION.
They Hid and Covered
Themselves.
Shame Was Within Them.
God Did NOT Shame Them.
Rejection
Will ALWAYS
Breed Shame!
But God Still Wants to Walk
With His Children on Earth.
God Made a Covering For Them
Their Self-made Coverings Were NOT Enough
God Loved Them TOO Much To Let Them Go
ENTER God's Plan On Earth
Romans 5:8
The Separation Was Dissolved By the Death of Jesus on the Cross
God Has Invited Each of Us To His Son's Wedding and Feast
When We Accept God's Invitation, We Are Made in Right Standing With God
ADAM- Before Fall

In Right Standing With God
ACCEPTED BY GOD
After Accepting God's Invitation- We Become Like Adam Before the Fall

ACCEPTED BY GOD
God's ACCEPTANCE
This Is Where Our Acceptance Comes From
Our
ACCEPTANCE
Without God, There
Is No Acceptance
The Human Existance
is a SEARCH to Be
ACCEPTED!
This Is NOW The Battle of Acceptance Where Satan Deceives Us With Belieivng We Are Uniquely Flawed.
REJECTION
Those That Refuse His Invitation Are Unworthy In God's Eyes
Matthew 22:8
SHAME
I Have A Dark Secret About ME That Proves I Am Defective- There's Something Wrong With ME.
FEAR
I Am Afraid That If You Really Knew About Me You Would No Longer ACCEPT Me and Would REJECT Me.
CONTROL
As a RESULT, I Have To Be In Control Of My Situations So This Dark Secret Never Surfaces- EVEN IF IT COSTS ME THE RELATIONSHIP.
SHAME-FEAR-CONTROL CYCLE
It's A
DESTRUCTIVE
CYCLE
OUR
ACCEPTANCE
There Are Three Tactics or Searches We Do To Find Acceptance
NEGATIVE
BEHAVIOR
Lying
Sexual Sins
Drugs
Alcohol
Cheating
POSITIVE
BEHAVIOR
Helping Others
Going to Church
Reading Bible
Feeding the Poor
ACCEPT GOD'S INVITATION
Confessing Our Sins- Receiving God's Salvation Plan Through His Son Jesus.
The Fruit of
REJECTION
LOW
SELF-IMAGE
INSECURITY
INADEQUACY
SADNESS-
GRIEF
INABILITY
TO
COMMUNICATE
REJECTION
IS AN
INABILTY TO
GIVE OR ACCEPT
LOVE
MEANS TO
"THROW AWAY"
COMMUNICATES
A PERSON IS
UNNACCEPTABLE,
OF NO VALUE,
DOESN'T BELONG,
UNLOVED
COMMUNICATED
THROUGH-
A DISGUSTED LOOK,
AN IMPATIENT ANSWER,
A SNUB,
NEGLECT,
SILENCE
STEALS YOUR
TRUE
IDENTITY
OUR ACCEPTANCE
IS AN INTERNAL ISSUE
YOU CANNOT
SOLVE AN
INTERNAL
ISSUE
WITH
EXTERNAL
BEHAVIORS!
NEGATIVE
BEHAVIOR
EXTERNAL ATTEMPTS
POSITIVE
BEHAVIOR
EXTERNAL ATTEMPTS
X
REJECTION
SPIRIT OF REJECTION
Around and Dwelling
Inside US.
REJECTED
ACT OF REJECTION
From Specific ACTIONS
of Others
REJECT
The End Result
THE MINDSET OF REJECTION-
I AM A REJECT
(There's Something Wrong
With Me).
Those Who Have Been Rejected Are Prone To Pass It Along...
4 just as He chose us in Him before
the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and without blame before Him in love, 5 having predestined us to adoption as sons by Jesus Christ to Himself, according to the good pleasure of His will, 6 to the praise of the glory of His grace, by which He made us
accepted in the Beloved.
Ephesians 1:4-6
Solve the Identity Problem
The KEY To Overcoming
REJECTION
is To
Apart From Christ, It Is NOT Possible to Find The Kind of Acceptance Which Nullifies the Psychological Damage Rejection Causes.
It is Impossible to Live in the World Without Experiencing Rejection.
THE MESSAGE
WE HEAR
You Don't
Measure Up
The Rejection Syndrome
THE MESSAGE
WE HEAR
You Don't Measure Up
THE BELIEFS
WE EMBRACE
I'm Bad, I'm Inferior
THE PAIN
WE FEEL
Pain From Isolation, Abandonment,
Self-Doubt and Self-Hatred
THE GAMES
WE PLAY
Denial, Withdrawal,
Manipulation, Control
THE MESSAGE
WE SEND
You Don't Measure Up
REJECTION
Produces 3 Kinds of People
One Who Gives In
A Path of Negative Emotions
and Attitude
One Who Holds Out
Develops a Superficial Happiness
One Who Fights Back
One Who Fights EVERYTHING!
Lonliness
Self-Pity
Misery
Depression
Despair/Hopelessness
Death or Suicide
Builds a Wall of Defense That Covers One's Inner Agony and Struggles
Appears to Be Outgoing & Talkative
BUT- Has a Hollow Metallic Voice
The Order of Reactions:
Resentment
Hatred
Rebellion
Knitted You Together
GOD...
Fearfully and Wonderfully Made
You ARE His Masterpiece
Of ALL the Different
Types of People
Around the
World...
There is Only ONE Path to God.
REJECTION
Our BIGGEST Nightmare
Why?
We Were Made to Be
LOVED and ACCEPTED
DISCARDED
DROPPED
NEGLECTED
DISMISSED
EXCLUDED
NOT INVITED
REPLACED
IS A SPIRITUAL ISSUE
PSYCHOLOGICAL
CORE
REJECTION
SOUL
EMOTIONAL
OF
At the
Identity
Theft
Started a Long Time Before the
Invention of Computers!
Identity
Theft
The Spirit of Rejection
Steals Your TRUE Identity!
What Thoughts Do These Words Produce In You?
There was WAR in Heaven!
God WINS!
Lucifer Looses His Take Over Attempt
Becomes the Prince of Air
AND Resurrected Life Was Now Available to All Who Believe
AGAIN
- God WINS!
Because JESUS Rose From the Dead.
PERFORMANCE
ORIENTATED
UNRESOLVED
ANGER
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