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Conflict Resolution In All Types of Relationships

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Katherine Derloshon

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Conflict Resloution By:Katherine Derloshon
and Alix Fitch Men vs. Women When men and women are able to respect and accept their differences then love has a chance to blossom. When a woman offers unsolicited advice or tries to “help” a man, she has no idea of how critical and unloving she may sound to him. To feel better Martians go to their caves to solve problems alone.
To feel better Venusians get together an openly talk about their problems. Men are motivated and empowered when they feel needed...
Women are motivated and empowered when they feel cherished. A man’s deepest fear is that he is not good enough or that he is incompetent. The Martian and Venusian languages had the same words, but the way they were used gave different meanings. The biggest challenge for women is correctly to interpret and support a man when he isn’t talking.
Men argue for the right to be free while women argue for the right to be upset. Men want space while women want understanding. Men are most prone to argue when they have made a mistake or upset the women they love. Men are much more willing to say yes if they have the freedom to say no.
Relationships Just as communication is the important element in a relationship, arguments can be the most destructive element.
Whether you share the feelings in your letter or you just write a letter to feel better, writing down your feelings is an essential tool.
Ironically, the very act of avoiding our negative emotions gives them the power to control our lives.
To grow in our ability to love ourselves we need to receive love as well.
Relationship relate recount or retell you are constantly relating to yourself about everyone Relationships stem from what we relate to ourselves about other people.
Complaint free relationships Complaint free relationships is not about learning what to do; it is about learning how to be
Think: relationships are between human beings
Reality: interactions are the expression of the relationship, not the relationship itself A man marries a woman thinking she will never change.
A woman marries a man thinking she can change him.
They are both wrong. The one who gives is the one that has the most control. Christine Mador
Every problem is a communication problem Successful communication is about owning your experience of what happened rather than trying to press the other person to agree that your version is the only accurate one using the word I rather than you Stopping the negativity of complaining does more to improve relationships than does adding positive aspects to the relationship.
Complaint “an energetic statement focused on the problem at hand rather than the resolution sought”
Relationships are not 50/50. They are 100/100.
“99% of all failures come from people who have the habit of making excuses.” George Washington Carver
Processing is about changing the person doing the processing “What can I do differently to cause an improvement in the relationship?”
http://www.mindtools.com/pages/article/newLDR_81.htm
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