Loading presentation...

Present Remotely

Send the link below via email or IM

Copy

Present to your audience

Start remote presentation

  • Invited audience members will follow you as you navigate and present
  • People invited to a presentation do not need a Prezi account
  • This link expires 10 minutes after you close the presentation
  • A maximum of 30 users can follow your presentation
  • Learn more about this feature in our knowledge base article

Do you really want to delete this prezi?

Neither you, nor the coeditors you shared it with will be able to recover it again.

DeleteCancel

Copy of Bridges

This is a presentation about bridges it is EPIC!!!
by

JJ Meier

on 17 June 2015

Comments (0)

Please log in to add your comment.

Report abuse

Transcript of Copy of Bridges

PRECEPTION IS REALITY!
CAN WE TALK? I DON'T KNOW... CAN WE?
CAN PARENTS AND TEENS COMMUNICATE?
There are many POINTS OF VIEW ... ALWAYS




YES REALLY!
BRIDGES OF BRILLIANCE!
IS THIS POSSIBLE?!?
THE FOUNDATIONAL ELEMENTS OF AUTHENTIC COMMUNICATION
INTEGRITY:
THE QUALITY OR CONDITION OF BEING WHOLE OR UNDIVIDED; COMPLETENESS AND HONOR
SCIENCE TO THE RESCUE!
SURE... WE COMMUNICATE JUST FINE!
What is the most useful shape for a bridge?
WHAT? COMMUNICATE? RIGHT!
WE NEED HELP!
Triangle because most structures are built with triangle
(It doesn't mean you can build a stabled bridge with just wood) The other material are also useful
HELP IS ONE THE WAY!
LETS BUILD BRIDGES OF
COMMUNICATION!

PIVOTAL PERCEPTION
YOU DO REALIZE HOW REMARKABLE YOU ARE, RIGHT?
THIS IS THE
KEY
TO EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION!

BEHAVIOR IS THE CURRENCY OF HUMAN INTERACTION
SCIENCE + EMOTION = STYLE
Scientifically validated assessment tools:
Measure four behavioral characteristics
Measure four communication styles
Measure twelve driving forces (motivators)

THE RESULT?

PSYCHONEUROIMMUNOLOGY; EPIGENETICS; HOLISTIC THEOLOGY (DEEPEST FORM OF BELIEF)
HERE COMES B.O.B!


*BUILDING "BRIDGES OF COMMUNICATION" BETWEEN PARENTS AND TEENS
GENERATIONAL ISSUES: PACE, TONE, BODY LANGUAGE, SLANG AND MORE!
WHAT IS PERCEPTION?
Yada, yada, yada, say what?

TONE OF VOICE/PACE/ACTIONS
WORDS
BODY LANGUAGE
CHALLENGES? PROBLEMS? A RESULT OF…
LACK OF...
VALUING & JUDGING…
WE EXPERIENCE AN EVENT

To grow forward, the assumptions around every RELATIONSHIP or issue can be measured within three contexts:
FUNCTIONALITY

ADAPTABILITY

SUSTAINABILITY

Is it functioning in a positive way in my life?

Is it adaptable to who / what I am now?

Is it sustainable in its current form --- or does it need to CHANGE to survive and to serve my life and family now?

WORDS HAVE IMMENSE POWER!
CATABOIC ENERGY

ANABOLIC ENERGY

MUST
SHOULD
HAVE TO
NEED TO
EXPECTATIONS
PROBLEMS

INVITE
CONSIDER
ENCOURAGE
TOGETHER
EXPECTANCY
SOLUTIONS

TWO MOST POWERFUL
WORDS...
I AM

WORTH

I AM WHAT?…
WORTHINESS…
WHAT’S THE ONE THING MOST OF US RESIST?
CHANGE!
THE FUNNEL OF YES!!!
GENERAL STATEMENTS
SPECIFIC STATEMENTS
GET TO GOAL
YES, YES, YES

BENEFIT STATEMENTS THAT GET
YES ANSWERS!

IF I COULD SHOW YOU A WAY?

WOULD YOU AGREE?

IS THIS TRUE?

IS THIS OF
INTEREST
TO YOU?

BRIDGES OF BRILLIANCE
INDIVIDUAL FAMILY PACKAGES
GROUP PROGRAMS
CORPORATE SPONSORSHIPS

CHALLENGES? PROBLEMS? A RESULT OF…
10% HOW WE DO WHAT WE DO
90% WHY WE DO WHAT WE DO
FOR MORE INFOMATION ABOUT B.O.B.
http://www.strategengroup.com/
REALLY?!?
*BRIDGES OF BRILLIANCE
SURE!
HOW?


BY UNDERSTANDING HOW ANOTHER PERSON
RECEIVES
AND
PROCESSES
INFORMATION

ADD UP TO VERY REAL "STYLE DIFFERENCES" ALONG WITH THE HOW AND WHY OF COMMUNICATION... AND THE BUILDING BLOCKS FOR BRIDGE BUILDING ARE FAULTY.

EFFECTIVE, SUSTAINABLE COMMUNICATION TOOLS BECOME VITALLY IMPORTANT
AUTHENTICITY:
THE QUALITY OR CONDITION OF BEING REAL, TRUSTWORTHY AND GENUINE
BALANCE:
A HARMONIOUS OR SATISFYING PROPORTION OF PARTS OR ELEMENTS OF LIFE, CAREER, SOCIAL CONSCIOUSNESS AND BEING IN SERVICE
WHAT ARE YOUR PIVOTAL PERCEPTIONS?
WHAT ALTERS PERCEPTION?
E-R-O
EVENT + RESPONSE = OUTCOME
WHAT IS SAID AND WHAT IS MEANT - & WHAT IS MEANT AND NOT SAID - AUTHENTIC COMMUNICATION GETS LOST
WE INSTANTLY AND UNCONSCIOUSLY PROCESS THE EVENT
WE VALUE IT POSITIVELY OR JUDGE IT NEGATIVELY BASED ON OUR BELIEFS
WE EXPRESS OUR RESPONSE BEHAVIORALLY…
E + R = O
Invaluable self-discovery
Enhanced communication skills
Understanding of others’ style
We CAN talk!
Tone of Voice 38%
Words 7%
Body Language 55%
Total = 100 %
TRUST
OR
LACK OF...
WHY?

PERCEPTIONS!
DISCIPLINE
SIGN OVER HEAD:
VALIDATE ME!
I HEAR YOU
I SEE YOU
YOU MATTER TO ME
…BECAUSE …
SENSE OF WORTH AND EQ ARE DRIVING FACTORS OF SUCCESSFUL COMMUNICATION!!

CAN WE CONTROL SOMEONE ELSES PERCEPTION?
CAN WE ALTER SOMEONES ELSES PERCEPTION?
HOW?

BY WHAT? WORDS WE USE; TONE, PACE, BODY LANGUAGE, ENERGY
Full transcript