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Copy of Bridges
Transcript of Copy of Bridges
CAN WE TALK? I DON'T KNOW... CAN WE?
CAN PARENTS AND TEENS COMMUNICATE?
There are many POINTS OF VIEW ... ALWAYS
BRIDGES OF BRILLIANCE!
IS THIS POSSIBLE?!?
THE FOUNDATIONAL ELEMENTS OF AUTHENTIC COMMUNICATION
THE QUALITY OR CONDITION OF BEING WHOLE OR UNDIVIDED; COMPLETENESS AND HONOR
SCIENCE TO THE RESCUE!
SURE... WE COMMUNICATE JUST FINE!
What is the most useful shape for a bridge?
WHAT? COMMUNICATE? RIGHT!
WE NEED HELP!
Triangle because most structures are built with triangle
(It doesn't mean you can build a stabled bridge with just wood) The other material are also useful
HELP IS ONE THE WAY!
LETS BUILD BRIDGES OF
YOU DO REALIZE HOW REMARKABLE YOU ARE, RIGHT?
THIS IS THE
TO EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION!
BEHAVIOR IS THE CURRENCY OF HUMAN INTERACTION
SCIENCE + EMOTION = STYLE
Scientifically validated assessment tools:
Measure four behavioral characteristics
Measure four communication styles
Measure twelve driving forces (motivators)
PSYCHONEUROIMMUNOLOGY; EPIGENETICS; HOLISTIC THEOLOGY (DEEPEST FORM OF BELIEF)
HERE COMES B.O.B!
*BUILDING "BRIDGES OF COMMUNICATION" BETWEEN PARENTS AND TEENS
GENERATIONAL ISSUES: PACE, TONE, BODY LANGUAGE, SLANG AND MORE!
WHAT IS PERCEPTION?
Yada, yada, yada, say what?
TONE OF VOICE/PACE/ACTIONS
CHALLENGES? PROBLEMS? A RESULT OF…
VALUING & JUDGING…
WE EXPERIENCE AN EVENT
To grow forward, the assumptions around every RELATIONSHIP or issue can be measured within three contexts:
Is it functioning in a positive way in my life?
Is it adaptable to who / what I am now?
Is it sustainable in its current form --- or does it need to CHANGE to survive and to serve my life and family now?
WORDS HAVE IMMENSE POWER!
TWO MOST POWERFUL
I AM WHAT?…
WHAT’S THE ONE THING MOST OF US RESIST?
THE FUNNEL OF YES!!!
GET TO GOAL
YES, YES, YES
BENEFIT STATEMENTS THAT GET
IF I COULD SHOW YOU A WAY?
WOULD YOU AGREE?
IS THIS TRUE?
IS THIS OF
BRIDGES OF BRILLIANCE
INDIVIDUAL FAMILY PACKAGES
CHALLENGES? PROBLEMS? A RESULT OF…
10% HOW WE DO WHAT WE DO
90% WHY WE DO WHAT WE DO
FOR MORE INFOMATION ABOUT B.O.B.
*BRIDGES OF BRILLIANCE
BY UNDERSTANDING HOW ANOTHER PERSON
ADD UP TO VERY REAL "STYLE DIFFERENCES" ALONG WITH THE HOW AND WHY OF COMMUNICATION... AND THE BUILDING BLOCKS FOR BRIDGE BUILDING ARE FAULTY.
EFFECTIVE, SUSTAINABLE COMMUNICATION TOOLS BECOME VITALLY IMPORTANT
THE QUALITY OR CONDITION OF BEING REAL, TRUSTWORTHY AND GENUINE
A HARMONIOUS OR SATISFYING PROPORTION OF PARTS OR ELEMENTS OF LIFE, CAREER, SOCIAL CONSCIOUSNESS AND BEING IN SERVICE
WHAT ARE YOUR PIVOTAL PERCEPTIONS?
WHAT ALTERS PERCEPTION?
EVENT + RESPONSE = OUTCOME
WHAT IS SAID AND WHAT IS MEANT - & WHAT IS MEANT AND NOT SAID - AUTHENTIC COMMUNICATION GETS LOST
WE INSTANTLY AND UNCONSCIOUSLY PROCESS THE EVENT
WE VALUE IT POSITIVELY OR JUDGE IT NEGATIVELY BASED ON OUR BELIEFS
WE EXPRESS OUR RESPONSE BEHAVIORALLY…
E + R = O
Enhanced communication skills
Understanding of others’ style
We CAN talk!
Tone of Voice 38%
Body Language 55%
Total = 100 %
SIGN OVER HEAD:
I HEAR YOU
I SEE YOU
YOU MATTER TO ME
SENSE OF WORTH AND EQ ARE DRIVING FACTORS OF SUCCESSFUL COMMUNICATION!!
CAN WE CONTROL SOMEONE ELSES PERCEPTION?
CAN WE ALTER SOMEONES ELSES PERCEPTION?
BY WHAT? WORDS WE USE; TONE, PACE, BODY LANGUAGE, ENERGY